My little one is 19 months old and feel I have to do everything my self. Don't get me wrong my oh works long hours and provides for us but he is selfish and does anything to get out of looking after his daughter. Even though he would say this is not true. He went out to work this morning at 8 and basically not home yet . He met a mate after work for a pint. And some 5 hours later still not home and wondered why I am the way I am. I love my daughter dearly but just been made a fool of. I am so down. Is it possible to have delayed post natal depression as I feel so useless and inadequate in all ways.
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Sparklisam
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Talking is a good way of trying to solve your issues. Finding a common ground is one of he hardest things to try and achieve with a baby. I've argued it out many a time with my OH but we managed to meet in the middle. The difficult part is making them understand why it's important we work as a team xxx
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Sounds like you need a night out yourself. Have you got any friends locally that you could arrange something with? If you're a SAHM then you need a break from your little one just as much as your OH. Having said that, if he's hVe sole bread winner he needs a bit of time to call his own too. It's all about striking a compromise or it will just lead to further resentment. It's important to lay your cards on the table and stick to your guns. Hope you manage to sort this out. xxx
