purplebluered
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I've just been trying to explain to DH why i felt like such a failure having to have a section. It still bothers me a lot, I regularly talk to DH like once a week to keep him up to date with how I'm feeling about it all. He says he can't understand why I feel like such a failure, as he thinks I did brilliantly under terrible circumstances. But I do and I know some of you out there felt like failures after section.
My question is - can you help me explain to him WHY I felt like a failure. I just can't seem to explain it. I just do. I'm thinking its because my body failed to do something so natural, but then DH just said that it wasn't my fault cos LO was back to back and he got himself wedged in (my section notes said that they had to tug him out, he really was wedged in )
What do you girlies think?
Helen
My question is - can you help me explain to him WHY I felt like a failure. I just can't seem to explain it. I just do. I'm thinking its because my body failed to do something so natural, but then DH just said that it wasn't my fault cos LO was back to back and he got himself wedged in (my section notes said that they had to tug him out, he really was wedged in )
What do you girlies think?
Helen