Lilmoomin
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....I have had enough
As a few of you know, Monday we got the 1st results from the amnio which was great & said we are having a little girl which we are over the moon about ( hubby comes from a family of 6 boys).
Anyway my sister has the only grand-daughter at the moment, we went on holiday back in May to celebrate my 30th and my brother in-law was an ass cos I didn't feel well and refused to drink, kept commenting saying things like 'I'm sure you did this on purpose just to ruin the holiday' (we was ttc for a couple of years!!)
Anyway my hubby and my mum both said whilst we was on holiday they thought we was having a girl as my pregnancy's over the boys was identical and this one is so different!! Bro in-law then said 'that doesn't mean anything, I think your being stupid saying things like that & shouldn't get our hopes up as we would be devastated when we find out its a boy!' I thought my hubby was gonna smack him!
Since then I have seen my sister a few times, she was ok but distant with me....then when she was up the other day she said 'I hope its not a girl, cos Sophie wont like that!' (my niece) I was so shocked & hurt, I cried when she went! At this point we had the worry of the amnio & all we wanted was a healthy baby, didn't care about the sex!
Anyway before the amnio, my sister never even wished us luck, not even on the day!! She never called after to see if we was ok! Ouch!!!
Then when we got the results, we was all on cloud 9! I called her but she didn't answer! My mum called her a few minutes later & she answered!! My mum told her I tried to call & she just said she was to busy to answer the phone!!! My mum told her the results, she never said she was glad we got good results! Then when my mum said it was a girl, she got all on her high horse saying they could be wrong!!! My mum told her that the test was 100% and all she said is 'nothings 100%'
Since then she has not called me to congratulate us or anything, I am so hurt & upset, before I was pregnant we was so close
Sorry to moan, but to top it off it looks like things arnt looking good for me at work either I've just had enough & should be so happy, but right now I don't feel it x x x
As a few of you know, Monday we got the 1st results from the amnio which was great & said we are having a little girl which we are over the moon about ( hubby comes from a family of 6 boys).
Anyway my sister has the only grand-daughter at the moment, we went on holiday back in May to celebrate my 30th and my brother in-law was an ass cos I didn't feel well and refused to drink, kept commenting saying things like 'I'm sure you did this on purpose just to ruin the holiday' (we was ttc for a couple of years!!)
Anyway my hubby and my mum both said whilst we was on holiday they thought we was having a girl as my pregnancy's over the boys was identical and this one is so different!! Bro in-law then said 'that doesn't mean anything, I think your being stupid saying things like that & shouldn't get our hopes up as we would be devastated when we find out its a boy!' I thought my hubby was gonna smack him!
Since then I have seen my sister a few times, she was ok but distant with me....then when she was up the other day she said 'I hope its not a girl, cos Sophie wont like that!' (my niece) I was so shocked & hurt, I cried when she went! At this point we had the worry of the amnio & all we wanted was a healthy baby, didn't care about the sex!
Anyway before the amnio, my sister never even wished us luck, not even on the day!! She never called after to see if we was ok! Ouch!!!
Then when we got the results, we was all on cloud 9! I called her but she didn't answer! My mum called her a few minutes later & she answered!! My mum told her I tried to call & she just said she was to busy to answer the phone!!! My mum told her the results, she never said she was glad we got good results! Then when my mum said it was a girl, she got all on her high horse saying they could be wrong!!! My mum told her that the test was 100% and all she said is 'nothings 100%'
Since then she has not called me to congratulate us or anything, I am so hurt & upset, before I was pregnant we was so close
Sorry to moan, but to top it off it looks like things arnt looking good for me at work either I've just had enough & should be so happy, but right now I don't feel it x x x