I'm slightly worried that I ordered my secret Santa present 12 days ago and it still hasn't arrived and no reply from the supplier!!
Can u Get in touch with the supplier? Mine hasn't been delivered yet either, I'm going to wait till weds and then start asking questions.
And no you're not a scrouge at all, I don't do Christmas cards to people I see regularly as I think it's a waste of paper and money and they're not cheap either! I do send them to family though as they act as a reminder to keep in touch in my family lol, even then I buy charity ones so its my good deed for the month!