****February 2019 Mamas****

Happy new year ladies, hope your plans this evening are going well.
My hubby and I are staying at home together as our friends all dropped out of our plan for a games night tonight.

I'll be 35 weeks on Wednesday! Then I'll only have 5 weeks until my due date :shock:

Got lots of last minute stuff to sort out in January and need to get my list finalised and my bag packed for the hospital.

Kholl, could you enlighten me on the whole supplements to prep for labour? I've not known of women to do this, so it's new info for me.
 
I'm not taking supplements, I was going to take at least raspberry leaf tea but with my placenta and now her still being transverse - I just think I've had too many c-section threats to bother with them.

If she turns I will start with the tea though haha.

Yup, Jan is going to be full of baby prep for us too. I think I have everything in for packing my bag now (although want to buy some more nursing bras and maybe vests to pack.) Babies stuff needs to wait until I've washed it all but will be starting on that soon too.
 
Donna good idea! I guess February 14 for me. And I’ll guess boy, since DH is convinced! 9lbs 4oz.

Phillipa, you can start eating 6 dates a day at 35 or 36 weeks, which is supposed to speed up labor when it does happen. Otherwise, you can take 500mg evening primrose oil twice a day starting now, and increase to 3-4 times a day and insert one capsule vaginally starting at about 38-39 weeks. I think this helped move things along when I was overdue with my last baby.

I also am taking alfalfa daily to minimize risk of postpartum hemorrhage (I tend to bleed a lot postpartum), and red raspberry leaf capsules and red raspberry leaf and nettle tea. It’s a lot, I’m a nut for stuff like this!

How is everyone feeling?
 
I'm really not sure. I have the 6th Feb in my head but I think that's because we talked so much about a C-section (also ideal for me as it would mean I didn't go over my due date but also wouldn't be having her until after my brothers wedding on the 1st.) I think I'm going to go for the 19th... day after husband's birthday, I could well imagine going into labour on his birthday and giving birth the early hours of the 19th haha
 
Happy New Year ladies. Wishing you all a fabulous one! We're officially January nesting month now. Eek!

I was up at 5am again, as i can never sleep well, and get backache bad. Im busy packing to move and cleaning up Christmas!. The baby's head is so low though I'm getting period like pain when I do stuff. Anybody else like this? Maybe baby is getting prepared.

I have packed some bags for the boys in case they go to a friend's during the night. I bought new toothbrushes for them and snacks they will enjoy. These will go in the car now. My bag is almost ready! I keep adding to it. I don't have a dressing gown in there as it's too bulky. Of course, this is anticipating I have to go in and don't get a homebirth, if I'm under the 37 wk cut off again. X
 
Hey Puglover, sounds like you're more or less sorted!
I've just started on my own hospital bag, had to move some stuff around though and re-write my list a bit since I got some new stuff for Xmas.
My tiny human is engaging and all this extra pressure on the front of my pelvis is doing my SPD in, I went for a gentle stroll yesterday with my FIL and husband and I could barely make it around the teeny park we were in! :rofl:
I've got a few last minute bits and pieces to pick up for the sprog, and have some coupons to use for nappies and antibac wipes etc. Need to get all the baby clothes washed now as well and recounted, it feels like my list is never ending but we will get there!
My mum bought me a mother to be spa package for Christmas, so I've got that booked in tomorrow, I get a 45 minute facial and a pedicure (never had a pedicure before!), and lets say my feet need it. I've not been able to comfortably reach my feet for a couple of months now haha!
How is everyone else doing after NYE? We had a very quiet night in the end with some board games and hit the hay around 1:30am, although I didn't get to sleep till gone 3am thanks to my hubby's snoring..
35 weeks tomorrow, and thinking I can't get much bigger, right??…

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Husband decided to take all the Christmas decorations down today, I started packing my hospital bag but to be honest it turned into me just piling some of the stuff in a corner. I don't know why but I'm struggling with getting it done. I can't do babies yet as need to wash her stuff, but yeah - I can't seem yo focus to get mine done. I keep thinking of things I need to add or struggling with thinking what to put in. I have some maternity/nursing dresses I'm thinking I should pack, but silly things like that fact that I only have 3 pairs of leggings and use those and the said dresses for work is putting me off as I feel like I'm going to need them for work before hand haha. I might have to sort through my maternity stuff and start planning on wearing the bits that don't double up as nursing for the next month at work. I won't care as much once I go on maternity as I can wear whatever.
I can't remember what I wore in the early days after having my son. It was so long ago.

I feel like I'm stuck in a weird limbo; I can't wait to meet her now and I'm really worried time will drag. However I'm also not managing to get myself organised with things like packing my bag.

Feeling pretty good after new years eve; we just stayed in had a gorgeous curry feast and sat up with the dog (who was not impressed at how late we went to bed) having a chilled afternoon now watching films and eating as much left over food from Christmas that we can manage haha. Son is back at school tomorrow which is really rubbish.


I'm jealous of all you with your engaging babies. Mine is still transverse although she's been really active these past few days :) which is lovely. I'm honestly wondering if she has any intentions of moving at all.
 
Feeling really down after the midwives today; I'm trying not to worry and my midwife was fantastic. I cannot fault her one bit.

But baby is still transverse and it's all getting a bit too real for me if I'm being honest. I think this is partly why I'm struggling with packing my hospital bag and getting sorted with all the baby bits as I'm actually worried about what is going to happen.

I have my next midwife appointment booked for 2 weeks time and another scan booked in to check whether she has turned either head down or even breach. Really trying to keep my fingers crossed that's what will happen.

If not it'll be a C-section which although I'd prefer not I have really come to terms with after all the placenta business. But the worry would be if I went into labour before the section, obviously with the placenta that would have been as big an issue, they could have got me in for an emergency section and worse case it would be me who had excessive bleeding. Now the worry is cord prolapse and it's baby who is at risk.

I'm going to so what I can to get her moved in these next two weeks. Although there's not much I can do that I haven't been doing already. I'm quite active anyway and walk when I can, I haven't been using the closer car park at work as I've been preferring having the walk in and out even though I have a pass for the one right out side school and I've been going on my exercise ball. I'm going to try and not sit back at all; or lay on my back at all (although I don't tend to do that anyway) but at the moment I'm feeling a bit deflated and just starting to think she likes that position and has no intentions of moving.
 
Feeling really down after the midwives today; I'm trying not to worry and my midwife was fantastic. I cannot fault her one bit.

But baby is still transverse and it's all getting a bit too real for me if I'm being honest. I think this is partly why I'm struggling with packing my hospital bag and getting sorted with all the baby bits as I'm actually worried about what is going to happen.

I have my next midwife appointment booked for 2 weeks time and another scan booked in to check whether she has turned either head down or even breach. Really trying to keep my fingers crossed that's what will happen.

If not it'll be a C-section which although I'd prefer not I have really come to terms with after all the placenta business. But the worry would be if I went into labour before the section, obviously with the placenta that would have been as big an issue, they could have got me in for an emergency section and worse case it would be me who had excessive bleeding. Now the worry is cord prolapse and it's baby who is at risk.

I'm going to so what I can to get her moved in these next two weeks. Although there's not much I can do that I haven't been doing already. I'm quite active anyway and walk when I can, I haven't been using the closer car park at work as I've been preferring having the walk in and out even though I have a pass for the one right out side school and I've been going on my exercise ball. I'm going to try and not sit back at all; or lay on my back at all (although I don't tend to do that anyway) but at the moment I'm feeling a bit deflated and just starting to think she likes that position and has no intentions of moving.
Sorry to hear you're feeling this way Donna. I have been through this too with my 2nd who was transverse, and as I've said before, my boy was born to their surprise foot and bottom first naturally.
Have they offered to turn the baby at all? Is that something you could do?
 
I forgot you'd had the same. I'm sure everything will be fine; just can't help with that little niggling feeling at the back of my head.

It's good knowing that everything was okay when you had the same situation :)

She did say that they will offer to turn her if I want but it's up to me as it can be painful. If it comes to that I would take that option as I see the pain now rather than the worry/danger later.
 
Donna hoping she turns for you! It's still not too late!

Now 2019 has arrived I finally believe I'm really having a baby! I'm suddenly feeling a real urge to get everything done (just as well as we currently have nothing sorted!)....so baby clothes out of the loft tomorrow, I'll start washing them and get hospital bags done.
 
Donna, babies can turn at any point can’t they? Is there a chance she might just spin round last minute and all will be fine? xx
 
Yeah they can turn at any point. I think the worry with transverse is more the not knowing. If a baby is breach at least if labour starts before a section happens they still know the bum is coming out first and they can deliver a breach baby. When baby is transverse they don't know whether they've turned and head or bum are going to come out, whether a foot or hand might be first to appear, back first (in which case I don't think there's any chance of them coming out) or the main worry is if the cord comes out, as that can cut out oxygen to the baby - which is why if my waters gushed it would be bum in the air and ambulance. Just in case the cord had come out as well.

I've got two weeks until my scan anyway so that's two weeks to turn and I'm sure if she is still transverse then they will do me another scan before the section would be planned, so there would still be chance for her to move.

I do realise the chances of her not moving and me also going into natural labour are slim, but these things do happen. I've known someone who had a baby who's foot came out first, I could be wrong - but I'm assuming she must have been transverse too, it was years ago though and I don't think it had been picked up on.
 
It's just a really scary situation to be honest, I wish we were back to the placenta thing as it wasn't as scary, if it meant C-Section I could deal with that and the thought of going into labour before hand wasn't as scary as it would have just meant going straight into the hospital as opposed to an actual ambulance emergency because she is in danger.
 
I'm going to try and get a little more organised these next couple of days too. We're stuck in waiting for deliveries so perfect time to sort some bits around the house. My husband started painting babies room today so he'll probably have some touch ups to do tomorrow.

My list of things to do include (although I'm not planning on doing them all this week haha - I'll be happy if they all get done in January)

- Wash cloth nappies
- Wash babies white clothes and bedding
- Wash babies coloured clothes and bedding
- Pack my hospital bag
- Pack babies hospital bag
- Pack overnight bag for son just in case it's needed
- Sort through wardrobe and put breastfeeding friendly items to one side


I think that's all... need to think about if there's anything we need to order before baby gets here too.

Not baby wise I want to find some nice wrap for my brothers wedding present and get that wrapped up nicely, I've already ordered my mums partners present (it's her 60th in Feb) so will want to get that wrapped nicely and a card sorted just in case I don't have time closer to her Birthday because of babies arrival. Same with husbands presents as he's also in Feb, although I haven't got all of his presents sorted and not 100% sure what I'll be getting. I would like all these things sorted in Jan also though so if she makes an early appearance I'm not rushing around trying to do them while she's here or not getting chance to do them at all.

Husband put out a facebook event for our baby shower today, so that's something nice to focus on as well.
 
Focus on all those nice things happening Donna, and you may be nicely surprised if baby turns one day suddenly!!!
The important thing like you say is that you and the docs are on it, scanning you, and you don't end up going into labour early like I did, with a silly midwife delivering that believed the baby was head down!
You have to be a little pushy with them sometimes for your own sake.
 
If she hasn't moved I'll def be pushy if need be; like you say she should move or failing that chances of me going into early labour are slim :) son was 3 weeks early but that was due to having to be induced. Because there's a 10 year gap this is like having my first so if left to natural labour I'm sure she'll be late.

Thankyou and sorry I was feeling really rubbish yesterday and couldn't pull myself out of a bit of a hole. I did sit for a while on the floor leaning on my ball though and I'll try and do that each evening.

I've had a bit of a kick up the bum from a friend today to get at least my hospital bag sorted. I've just had to order a couple of makeup bits which will go straight in when they arrive and I'm waiting on some other bits like bigger nursing bras. But I can have the bag packed and just add to it when things arrive. If I pack now at least if I need to buy anything else (like I know I need some face wash) I can make a list as I'll know exactly what I need.
 
I had the worst night sleep ever last night, so feeling bad today. I had the restless legs again for 3 hrs, along with raging heartburn, so couldn't sleep til 1am. Then it was on and off all night. It's super exhausting and uncomfortable. What a weird sensation having to stretch and move constantly. Least when baby arrives I may get rid of these things and sleep normally between.

Still waiting for the new house to be confirmed for next week. I'm packing still and hoping it all goes through otherwise I may be upside down here with a baby! Lol, oh well that is life.
 
Sorry to hear you had a bad nights sleep. I've not been sleeping well for a while but it's my husband breathing heavy. I'm hoping it's just me being more in tune with these things because if he keeps me awake when baby is here I might actually hurt him haha.

Fingers crossed the house goes through fine; if you are still there when the baby comes I'm sure you'll managed but so much better if you are moved and settled.
 
Donna, have you checked out spinning babies? I know that's worked wonders for many women... I also know that the Webster Technique (a chiropractic maneuver) has a very high success rate, as does doing the Miles Circuit (I think you can just google that and find what you need!). I know when my midwife thought baby was breech at 31 weeks, it was all I could think about until my 35-week appointment when they confirmed baby is head-down. I am glad you're feeling better today, I know how things like that can preoccupy your mind.

Puglover, sleep is always elusive for me, even when not pregnant. But when I'm pregnant, it's an absolute beast! I am so sorry about the awful night. My insomnia is always an issue, and these days I'm getting up to pee around 10 times a night, which is just ridiculous. Good luck with the new house!!

Phillipa you look fantastic! Our bumps are very similar. I also feel like I can't get any bigger... though I know I will! I'll upload a pic soon.

I am feeling a lot of momentum and urge to purge and reorganize our house. We live in a very small home (2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom!) and we are about to have 6 people in here which is bonkers. We DO have a finished basement, but it's really a guest space (with a big beautiful bedroom and extra bathroom) and a work space for my husband. Laundry is down there too. So it's not like everything is crammed into our main living space, but we definitely have to be very thoughtful with how we use the space we have. The kitchen is an absolute disaster, the cabinets are literally disintegrating and I constantly have to wipe wood splinters and paint flakes off our pots and pans before we use them. I can't wipe down the front of the cabinets because wood and paint comes off every time! I am very stressed about the health implications of our kitchen in its current state... so we are actively discussing redoing the kitchen with a contractor, which of course is an insanely long and expensive process. But we really can't wait anymore, even with how careful I am I'm sure my poor kids are ingesting some of the falling-off paint/wood and this is an old house and I'm sure there's lead paint in there somewhere! Anyway I think about it constantly but there's just nothing more I can do about it at the moment. And when we finally get a date for redoing the kitchen, I don't totally know where we'll go while they do all the work!

We may have to look into a new house altogether, but I don't want to leave our block. We have the best neighbors and 11 kids (about to be 12 :) ) ages 11 and under, and in the summer time it's a kid party outside all day every day. It feels idyllic for our kids (and for us, too!) and I don't want to attempt to form a community like the one we already have here. I'm hoping in the next couple years we can build on (maybe add a second story) but I'm not sure how realistic that is.

Thanks for listening to me, this is just on my mind constantly these days and I had to get it all written down!
 

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