Steelgoddess
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I just wanted to get some advice from you ladies...
When I found out I was preggo i wasnt going to find out the sex, but then OH decided we should and I kinda wanted to know too, kinda cause i was excited already and I wanted to bond with the baby...
Ever since i told ppl im find out the sex all i get:
"They shouldn't allow ppl to find out"
"Oh we waited"
"What you want to know the sex for just wait"
The lady at the hospital even said "Oh well I hope he or she crosses her legs so u can;t find out".
Its really bugging me its like ppl are trying to make out that im doing something by finding out, for ppl who don't want to know I respect that decision so why am |I getting so much jip for wanting to know what my baby is and make preparations?
Also what do you say to these ppl??
When I found out I was preggo i wasnt going to find out the sex, but then OH decided we should and I kinda wanted to know too, kinda cause i was excited already and I wanted to bond with the baby...
Ever since i told ppl im find out the sex all i get:
"They shouldn't allow ppl to find out"
"Oh we waited"
"What you want to know the sex for just wait"
The lady at the hospital even said "Oh well I hope he or she crosses her legs so u can;t find out".
Its really bugging me its like ppl are trying to make out that im doing something by finding out, for ppl who don't want to know I respect that decision so why am |I getting so much jip for wanting to know what my baby is and make preparations?
![cry :cry: :cry:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cry.gif)
Also what do you say to these ppl??