Slinky Sarah
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Well i went to the doctors this morning because this last AF has been very funny. I started spotting last Thursday...was due AF the friday but between intermitend red blood (when straining for a poo ) i had nothing but a small amount of brown/pink discharge. on tuesday night my 'AF' started, 4 days late. Was heavier than normal and more painful but i didnt really think anything more of it. Well i decided to go to the docs as iv been bleeding on and off for over a week now. The first thing the doctor says is 'i think its a very early miscarriage going by your dates and the pain etc'. I was shocked tbh...never even knew i was preg. I asked if it could be anything else, she said maybe an infection so im going for swabs next friday. But she kept coming back to the miscarriage thing. Before i left the last thing she said to me was 'watch out for signs of ectopic pregnancy too. Any signs get straight to A&E .
Well i phoned oH and told him what the doctor had said...hes just as shocked as me. It never crossed either of our minds really.
About an hour after i came home, i got very bad cramps....went to the loo too see lots and lots of bright red sticky blood...it just poured out of me. Since then iv been passing clots, relativly small at first. In the past 3 hours or so iv gone through 5 night time sanitary towels. Most recently i went to the loo cos i could feel clots coming (TMI) and had such pain in my back exactly the same as last time. The clots were very big....the last one i ended up pulling out of me...it just kept coming and was very big. (TMI im sorry)
So i think its safe to say iv had my second miscarriage in 10 months.
Im doing ok atm....not told OH yet that its definatly a miscarriage....hes still at work and out driving....cant exactly tell him iv lost our child we never knew we had now...
Gonna tell him tonite when i go down and see him. Just gotta figure out how to tell him.
Erm so yeah thats it really. Hope my babies look after each other up there and look after mummy and daddy....Feels so strange knowing iv lost another baby that we didnt even know about.....Makes me feel like a bad mother really...
Well i phoned oH and told him what the doctor had said...hes just as shocked as me. It never crossed either of our minds really.
About an hour after i came home, i got very bad cramps....went to the loo too see lots and lots of bright red sticky blood...it just poured out of me. Since then iv been passing clots, relativly small at first. In the past 3 hours or so iv gone through 5 night time sanitary towels. Most recently i went to the loo cos i could feel clots coming (TMI) and had such pain in my back exactly the same as last time. The clots were very big....the last one i ended up pulling out of me...it just kept coming and was very big. (TMI im sorry)
So i think its safe to say iv had my second miscarriage in 10 months.
Im doing ok atm....not told OH yet that its definatly a miscarriage....hes still at work and out driving....cant exactly tell him iv lost our child we never knew we had now...
Gonna tell him tonite when i go down and see him. Just gotta figure out how to tell him.
Erm so yeah thats it really. Hope my babies look after each other up there and look after mummy and daddy....Feels so strange knowing iv lost another baby that we didnt even know about.....Makes me feel like a bad mother really...