Hi mums Im hoping for some advice!
Since being pregnant me and OH had some real scares at the beginning with some slight bleeding around 6 weeks and the fact I'd MC before.
We were TTC for 8 months so didnt want anything to go wrong!
The first time we were brave enough to risk intercourse in tri 1 after the slight bleeding had stopped, there was a spot of blood which sent me into serious panic mode. Needless to say we've since made it to 25 weeks so all was ok it must of been the increase in blood I have.
We dont really do it now as I think OH is just as scared of hurting me or more importantly baby. Now whenever (rarely!) we have sex I end up feeling this overwhelming guilt that the baby is dead and its my fault, i feel so depressed until i feel him kick again and even them i wonder if he's ok.
Im just hoping to hear from you who continued intercourse through your pregnancies and went on to have healthy babies without losing them so I can get a grip on reality again. Thanks for listening. xx
Since being pregnant me and OH had some real scares at the beginning with some slight bleeding around 6 weeks and the fact I'd MC before.
We were TTC for 8 months so didnt want anything to go wrong!
The first time we were brave enough to risk intercourse in tri 1 after the slight bleeding had stopped, there was a spot of blood which sent me into serious panic mode. Needless to say we've since made it to 25 weeks so all was ok it must of been the increase in blood I have.
We dont really do it now as I think OH is just as scared of hurting me or more importantly baby. Now whenever (rarely!) we have sex I end up feeling this overwhelming guilt that the baby is dead and its my fault, i feel so depressed until i feel him kick again and even them i wonder if he's ok.
Im just hoping to hear from you who continued intercourse through your pregnancies and went on to have healthy babies without losing them so I can get a grip on reality again. Thanks for listening. xx