I had a planned c-section as DD was breech and found it to be a really positive experience. Although only got two days notice! I just turned up at the hospital for 7:30am and by 11:40 we had a baby girl. The whole thing was lovely and a really nice relaxed way to have LO. Both hubby and I would choose this way again, althoguh it would be nice to have one contraction at some point if we have another one.
Was really lucky on the healing front and did find some of it mind over matter though. I was in hospital for two nights but both those nights I did everything for my baby, just made full use of the adjustable bed to help me get from laying to sitting and also for the height to get DD out the cot. I wanted to be the one to do everything for my baby. The only time I pressed the bell for the nurse was to empty my catheter bag as it was so full it was too heavy to lift!
Within 6 hours after the section I was up having a wash, with hubby's help, as I felt so minging and just wanted to get moving (as soon as I could feel my legs again that is!) and get in a clean night dress and some pants, not just a pad wedged between my legs.
I was out the house and at coffee morning when DD was 6 days old, at my first baby group when LO was 11 days old and driving at 4 weeks.
I just did things as and when I felt like it and if I was tired or in pain, I did not do anything, when I was feeling good I got on with stuff. All I made sure I did not over do it with was lifting and stretching.