Sorry if this is embarrassing It actually seemed more normal to talk about my bits etc when I was pregnant and now I am too embarassed (and scared!) to go to the docs. Basically when we DTD for the first time 5 weeks after it was fine, and felt better than before. But gradually it's starting to get more and more painful. I've tried using extra lubricant, but now I'm too scared to even try because it hurts so much just inside. I don't want to go to the docs as I am worried they will use a speculum and it would cause me so much pain (I've also got some horrible stuff coming out, but I didn't know if this was normal as I haven't had a period since Ella was born).