Don't feel anything??? & a question about hair dye!

[Xcitedmum]

Babymomma I think you will be so proud and pleased with your little one that you will want to show her off in the hospital.

For me I think the major bonding time will be when I get home with the baby. I am considering asking visitors (apart from family) to stay away for the first week so that I have a fair chance to settle in and get to know the wee one. As I am a first time mum I think I will also be paranoid about visitors watching and analysing my skills/behaviour around the baby so for me it is important that I feel confident by the time the visitors are putting the door in round me!

 

[nmf1987]

shauna stop bloody worrying. lol. your going to be brilliant. i am also starting to panic about whether i will know what im doing etc and what if anythng happens that stops me from bonding etc. im sure will be fine though.

again with the hair thing i did mine the other day and am redoing it again in the next couple of days to make sure it looks nice for wedding on monday. xx

 

[BabysMomma]

Babymomma I think you will be so proud and pleased with your little one that you will want to show her off in the hospital.

For me I think the major bonding time will be when I get home with the baby. I am considering asking visitors (apart from family) to stay away for the first week so that I have a fair chance to settle in and get to know the wee one. As I am a first time mum I think I will also be paranoid about visitors watching and analysing my skills/behaviour around the baby so for me it is important that I feel confident by the time the visitors are putting the door in round me!

Yeh you're probably right ya know.

Its hard isn't it, having to tell people that you want your own time with your LO so you can bond, cos ya just know that someone will take the hump

This time around though, I don't really care about putting people's nose out of joint tbh, as I've gotten through this pregnancy pretty much on my own and know that people will only call to nose at my little bundle. They can, no probs, but when I feel ready and up to it. Also, I'm just a wee bit scared about PND as I had it with my DS, so I just haven't a clue how I'm gona be on the day or days following my LO arrival.

Argh, its all so blooming scary ladies x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Ah i know i need to stop worrying lol. My friend had her brat round today...he kicked my mams new pup full smack in the face and caught his eye She thinks she is coming to the hospital after i've had the baby but she isn't. I just don't want her there to be honest and shes not a true friend to me anyways.
I think i'll make people talk and get pissed off about it but who cares... also i don't want people picking the baby up when shes asleep. That will piss people off too but i need to do this and i want to do it so... i don't look forward to telling people lol.
Anyone else feel they are gonna piss a few people off?
About the bonding thing. I am so scared of post natal depression as i have had depression before. xxx

 

[nmf1987]

iv'e had depression to but im not worryng too much. i am defo the same as you when it comes to picking baby up though. it will only be when i say and certainly not when he is sleeping. xxx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Yeah i have heard from people it can make them twiny. xxx