Do men ever act mature?

[xshauna_bazx]

My man can be so immature at times with his twining i feel like gagging him at the minute!
My question is do they change in any way when they have a baby from your experiences how have they changed? and have they matured more? like i have just been thinking i can't imagine him with a baby it feels weird thinking about him with mine and his baby in his arms hes really good with older kids though xx

 

[LouiseB]

Oh i'd love to know if men change at all with a baby to look after...

My OH is sensible enough, but really lazy and uninterested about anything that might be seen as a chore.

We bought dogs as a bit of a trial, and they are completely 100% my responsibility. Out off 7 days, i sort them out in the morning 5 days and in the evening all 7 days!

I'm just crossing my fingers babies are different!

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Lol i know what you mean least im not alone he twines at anything he has to do and if he can't get something working or wants something hes like a kid, if i get a bfp soon ill have 2 to look after lol. would be cool if we could look into the future and see how they would change eh xx

 

[LouiseB]

would be cool if we could look into the future and see how they would change eh xx

Maybe... I don't think it would change anything though - i'd still have kids with him lol

 

[xshauna_bazx]

oh no it wouldnt change anything x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Another thing to add a good example. He goes in a mood if he can't hear the tv.....well hows he gonna react to a screaming baby? will it be different for him? sorry ive just been in a pretty low mood latley n need to twine xx

 

[positivity :)]

ive spoke to a few of my friends and they've told me they've seen changes, it must change men its such a big deal! xxx

 

[cherelle]

i hope my OH doesnt mature even more when we have a baby - he acts like such an old man as it is! lol

He is responisble, clean, tidy ... etc etc to the point of it being really annoying! Im hoping its me that will maybe grow up!! lol x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

ive spoke to a few of my friends and they've told me they've seen changes, it must change men its such a big deal! xxx

yeah i was thinking that its such a big change and well you have to be mature when you got a child to look after x


And cherelle my OH can be like that aswell lol obsessive cleaning and wanting everything perfect lol x

 

[cherelle]

yeah totally, thats what worries me ... that things wont be as clean and organised as they are now cos he hates mess and chaos!! x

 

[Tracey M]

My OH turned out to be the most amazing dad!! He even ended up as house husband for a while as I had to work (self employed). I even ended up getting jealous cos he was bonding with my son more than me! I never, never thought he would be so mature and such a great dad! Having a child changes most men - espacially as soon as they hold their baby for the first time and it hits them with a mega reality shot lol

 

[xshauna_bazx]

same here cherelle lol exactly.x

Tracey that made me feel good and i cant wait til i get pregnant and see my OH face when our baby is here awww its all these things to look forward too lol x

 

[flexilexi394]

lol my OH is quite immature on certain topics, he just brushes things off even when they are pretty major, so i think when he becomes a dad its actually going to be quite comical!! hes quite good at making the best out of a horrid situation, so i can imagine myself being the uptight one and he will just make it funny or just get on with it to sort the problem out. interesting, i will let you know in 4 months time lol xx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

flexilexi394
make sure you let us know lol xx

 

[flexilexi394]

lol i will!! xx