I have realised how bad I have opted for the "do it all woman"!!! I have just finished my full time work to start my maternity leave and my partner is stressing me big time with the cleaning of the house!!! He is going on on how easy my life is as a proper woman would be on her knees scrubbing every parts of the house, from behind the radiator to the top of doors.... I feel very cross because he does not work, is not 36 weeks pregnant and has not a bad back of carrying this baby for so long, and all he does is sit in front of his pc all day, complaining because he only had 7 hours of sleep in the night . I wanted to unwind a bit for my week end although I did some cleaning but not deep cleaning and i have reproaches!!!!! This was my plan to do every single room properly but taking my time because I do things pretty slowly now lol I have realised how bad it is going to be, having to go back to work after 17 weeks, full time so i can feed my family but having to do all the cleaning, shopping, cooking, looking after the baby while he does nothing. He said he will look after this baby full time but I do not beleive it at all. I am sure a single life is easier because at least you do not have to bother with the other half pissing you off because you have forgotten to buy some shaving foam or you have not washed this particular pair of jeans..... He has good days though where he will help me like cleaning the windows. today he has started a deeper cleaning of the kitchen but when he saw I was going out shopping, he did not bother carrying it on, he realised it is always a matter of long hours if you want to clean every little bits of the kitchen....... Sorry for moaning but sometimes I am thinking this is so unfair, that I might deserve a bit better than that kind of attitude towards me.