melissaw
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Firstly HEY I'm Mel I'm new to this website... Hope everyone's doing good
I have a little problem and no idea what to do... I've tried asking friends and family but still can't really decide what I do for the best...
Any advice in this situation or anyone that's been here themselves who have an opinion would be very welcome.
So I've been with my partner now for almost 8 years, we have a 7 year old daughter and I'm now 27 weeks pregnant with our second...
MY PROBLEM...
I've just been in the garage and stumbled across STEROIDS...
To me this explains a lot... I did ask him about 3 months ago if he was on steroids because of how big he has gotten in so little time... Of course he has lied to me as he said no!!
I noticed around 2 months ago that he had become very distant with me... I noticed a massive boost in his confidence, all of a sudden he is all about himself and I felt he was growing very distant. I found it strange because He has always been so close and loving toward me!!
I've been thinking all kinds of things... Mostly that he is "cheating" as our sex life has gone right down the pan... He says it's because I am pregnant and he doesn't feel comfortable with it all.... I find this odd because like I say I'm 27 weeks pregnant and before 2 months ago our sex life was amazing....
I am now wondering what I do about it... Do I confront him and tell him I know he's using steroids and he has no need to lie?
Do I tell him I don't want him to take them and give him an ultimatum me or those...
The thing is, I wouldn't mind him using them if he had not changed but our relationship is under so much strain and I now know the reason for it!!
He has made me feel so pathetic over the past few months, making me feel like I am going insane!! That it is in fact me doing this to us... Now I know it's him!!
Can someone help?
I'm sorry for ranting..
Mel x
I have a little problem and no idea what to do... I've tried asking friends and family but still can't really decide what I do for the best...
Any advice in this situation or anyone that's been here themselves who have an opinion would be very welcome.
So I've been with my partner now for almost 8 years, we have a 7 year old daughter and I'm now 27 weeks pregnant with our second...
MY PROBLEM...
I've just been in the garage and stumbled across STEROIDS...
To me this explains a lot... I did ask him about 3 months ago if he was on steroids because of how big he has gotten in so little time... Of course he has lied to me as he said no!!
I noticed around 2 months ago that he had become very distant with me... I noticed a massive boost in his confidence, all of a sudden he is all about himself and I felt he was growing very distant. I found it strange because He has always been so close and loving toward me!!
I've been thinking all kinds of things... Mostly that he is "cheating" as our sex life has gone right down the pan... He says it's because I am pregnant and he doesn't feel comfortable with it all.... I find this odd because like I say I'm 27 weeks pregnant and before 2 months ago our sex life was amazing....
I am now wondering what I do about it... Do I confront him and tell him I know he's using steroids and he has no need to lie?
Do I tell him I don't want him to take them and give him an ultimatum me or those...
The thing is, I wouldn't mind him using them if he had not changed but our relationship is under so much strain and I now know the reason for it!!
He has made me feel so pathetic over the past few months, making me feel like I am going insane!! That it is in fact me doing this to us... Now I know it's him!!
Can someone help?
I'm sorry for ranting..
Mel x