laetitia85
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I suppose it depends on what the child has done but what do you think is genereally the best option?
Sammystar said:I bet this sets off a good debate!!
I didn't vote, because with the exception of 'hard beating' I've tried them all at some point or another. Sometimes with results, sometimes without! It depends upon the circumstances, the offense commited, and the individual child!
We have a naughty room (time out) and a behaviour chart (rewards for good behaviour) which seem quite effective.
krystalmair said:I haven't voted cos I'm not sure...
Jack only a baby so couldn't ever imagine smacking him. I hopefully won't ever need to.
I was never smacked as a child, i knew I'd pushed my mam to far just by tone of her voice and would soon stop playing up so hopefully can just use mummy voice with Jack
budge said:i found sitting my children on a bean bag and not letting them move till they've calmed down the best way to control them.
depends on the situation and where you are as to how you can deal with things.
Most of the time just a glare or a growl stops my kids in their tracks. Im very strict.
Sammystar said:budge said:i found sitting my children on a bean bag and not letting them move till they've calmed down the best way to control them.
depends on the situation and where you are as to how you can deal with things.
Most of the time just a glare or a growl stops my kids in their tracks. Im very strict.
Budge, can you come and growl at my kids please?
trixipaws said:hmm probably the confiscating toys, no tv and the sitting in corner ones. (not all of them for one naughty thing tho lol) also maybe no sweets but i wouldnt say no food at all that would be starving her which would be neglect!
budge said:the word spanking really bothers me. seems a bit kinky.