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[jayla's mummy]

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[Snuggle]

In my opinion he is being insensitive to your feelings over this. I wouldnt be happy about seeing my DH's ex's things around the house and would get rid Gather all the things up in a bag and tell him they are going back to her. Explain how you feel about everything
Sorry if this is no help, its just what I would do

 

[budge]

well i think if they parted on good terms and they remain friends thats ok but if you aren't happy woth it then he should maybe think about his priorities.

what you maybe should think about is that its rather nice for him to be civil with his ex as a pose to her hating his guts or somrthing. it shows what sort of guy he is????

if you really don't like it. the next time you se them chatting throw some chips and gravy all over her or something.

 

[jayla's mummy]

i just feel lk how many times i tell him it doesnt matter, to the point were i just bottle things up. that the thing they didnt part on good terms. maybe ill just leave him to his own devices!
xnatx

 

[budge]

if its pissing you off id have it out with him.

 

[Sherry]

well i think if they parted on good terms and they remain friends thats ok but if you aren't happy woth it then he should maybe think about his priorities.

what you maybe should think about is that its rather nice for him to be civil with his ex as a pose to her hating his guts or somrthing. it shows what sort of guy he is????

if you really don't like it. the next time you se them chatting throw some chips and gravy all over her or something.

Sorry but that really made me giggle.
When I first moved in with hubby and found his ex's stuff there I just had a clear out of all her things. They were all shoved in the back of drawers and the wardrobes and did part on bad terms though so wasnt bothered.
Still it's as if it's one rule for him and another for you. Things should work both ways especially if it's upsetting you so much.

 

[budge]

thats what my friend did once to her boyfriends ex. she fould then talking once and she had some chips and gravy in her hand and to my horror she did no more than to walk right up to them and throw the tray in her cleavage there was gravy dripping all over her

of course i stirred things up even more by asking if she wwanted salt and vinegar with that??

 

[Sherry]

thats what my friend did once to her boyfriends ex. she fould then talking once and she had some chips and gravy in her hand and to my horror she did no more than to walk right up to them and throw the tray in her cleavage there was gravy dripping all over her

of course i stirred things up even more by asking if she wwanted salt and vinegar with that??

Or a pickled egg

 

[jayla's mummy]

 

[budge]

thats what my friend did once to her boyfriends ex. she fould then talking once and she had some chips and gravy in her hand and to my horror she did no more than to walk right up to them and throw the tray in her cleavage there was gravy dripping all over her

of course i stirred things up even more by asking if she wwanted salt and vinegar with that??

Or a pickled egg

or batter bits!

 

[Sherry]

thats what my friend did once to her boyfriends ex. she fould then talking once and she had some chips and gravy in her hand and to my horror she did no more than to walk right up to them and throw the tray in her cleavage there was gravy dripping all over her

of course i stirred things up even more by asking if she wwanted salt and vinegar with that??

Or a pickled egg

or batter bits!

Or just batter her bits and tell her she always thought she smelt a bit fishy

 

[budge]

thats what my friend did once to her boyfriends ex. she fould then talking once and she had some chips and gravy in her hand and to my horror she did no more than to walk right up to them and throw the tray in her cleavage there was gravy dripping all over her

of course i stirred things up even more by asking if she wwanted salt and vinegar with that??

Or a pickled egg

or batter bits!

Or just batter her bits and tell her she always thought she smelt a bit fishy

ROFLMAO!!!! fantastic!!!

 

[Sherry]

Well mama
I hope we cheered you up a bit with that, certainly brightened my night.
Saying that, if OH doesnt listen to your concerns tell him your going to batter his savaloy instead .
Hope you do manage to get through to him though

 

[budge]

i am sure we have cheered her up! hope so!

 

[sophie-jordan]

your are not over reacting or anything hun, hes not being fair
im in the same position as my boyfirned still speaks to his ex as they are expecting aswell, different situation i no but still feel like she is a threat
you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel, its not fair that he can do this and make u feel upset about it and that
hope things work out
x sophie x

 

[jenna]

i dont understand why you would want to hang about with some one you split up with, i mean there must be a reason why you cant get on or dont like em. Id talk to him about it hun

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

I dont think your over-reacting, my OH still talks to his ex sometimes even though shes a psycho biatch attention seeking imature little twat, who refuses to take responisbility for her own life and still uses him as an emotional crutch even though we have been together 2 years now

breathe......

But....I respect the fact that he still cares about her wellbeing, he may not love her now but he did once, and he still cares about her. I except that, and I know that no-matter what my opinion is of her, it doesnt change the fact that he wants her to be happy so he will put up with all the shit she throws his way now and again.

I know shes no threat, I know its me he loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with, so really....whats the harm in him talking to her now and again? Im certainly not going to tell him not to, just as he couldnt tell me not to talk to my ex!

 

[jayla's mummy]

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[tots hope]

i need advice!
what would you do if ur boyfriend or OH still spoke to his ex?
i stoped talking to my ex for him( and we were really good friends) but its like he cant let go!

This is a mirror of my life!

My DH asked me to have no contact with my ex (even though he was my best friend) and i agreed that because i loved him i wouldn't contact him anymore. Thing is DH is still able to contact his ex and she has just had a baby and gave it the same name as my DH? Is that weird or what?!

I can't really give advice but just so you know you are not alone. I told DH that i was getting back in touch iwth my ex and he got all stroppy but it can't be one rule for one and another rule for the other thats just WRONG!

 

[jayla's mummy]

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