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[tots hope]

I do talk to my ex after telling my DH i would be. I have a very close bond with my ex - i had a m/c while i was with him (he wasn't the father) and he was so good to me. Every year he checks up on me to see if i am ok and he always remembers the date.

My DH has learn to accept it although he wont meet my ex as he doesn't like him (they have never met but i think its because my ex was there when it mattered the most)Men say women are complicated - they should look at themselves!

Hope you problem resolves it self soon

 

[jayla's mummy]

x

 

[NooNoo]

rlly soz bout your m/c its really noce that ur ex was wid you at the time and sweet that he still checks up on you.
i hope so to i think i just need to believe my OH when he says that he wont do anything and that he wont leave me.
oh the joys relationships!

hear hear!!!

 

[jayla's mummy]

x

 

[NooNoo]

o hun, this happened with my ex, this girl pretended she was bisexual to try turn him on but he couldnt see that

As for what he did, are you prepared to forgive and forget? or can you??

 

[sophie-jordan]

aww hun
you have got 2 do what is going 2 b best 4 u in the long run
if you aint going 2 b able 2 4giv and 4get ( which not many people would) then maybe its best u get out b4 its 2 late n somthing bigger happens. if you lv him that much then maybe u should sit down and talk 2 him about it, tell him how you feel and that. he honestly cant expect u 2 b ok with it so might aswell get it all out now and clear the air if thats what you want
hope everything gets sorted 4 u hun
x sophie x

 

[libs]

It was just a kiss - that's all - don't throw something away just for that. I assume he's never done it before - he'll probably never do it again if you've given him a big enough scare. He's probably going through the whole becoming a Dad thing and whilst what he did was wrong - he hasn't been having an affair behind your back - it was just a kiss.

Take some time to calm down and tell him he can expect some hassle for a while and make it clear that this is his one chance..but don't make a huge huge deal out if it, think of the longer term and the big picture.

 

[frangelle]

My OH worked with his ex and was still really good mates with his, which I didn;'t really mind UNTIL he started telling her really personal stuff about me, then I went absolutely nuts!

So go for it- batter her bits

 

[frangelle]

hey ladies last night, me and my OH spoke about the ex and got everything sorted. then this girl from his work has been texting him like everyday. i tried to stay kool because its only friendship. then it has just been going on. i tried to tell him that she likes him, but no he doesnt wont to listen to me.

so anyway last night he sits me down and tells me that he and this girl kissed while he was at worked last night!!
he said that she kissed him first and he kissed her back.

please help me...
i feel so let down, i know it was only a kiss but im hurting inside. i love him to bits and i just want to forget about it, but when i look at him i imaging him kissing someone else.
advice please ladies

xnatx

Oh hun, betrayal like this is awful

At least he told you straight away, that's a sure sign he feels guilty.
Is he now going to stop seeing her, because that is not on, he has completely betrayed your trust.

But if you are willing to give it another chance (but don't make it too easy for him) then you can work through it, me and my OH had a bit of a trust issue at the beginning (long story- his fault) but now we are fine.

 

[jayla's mummy]

x