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[Emily0505]

Oh shit Millie, was typing when you posted so didn't see your post till after.

Could be a breakthrough bleed?

I'm sure you're assuming the worst and I don't want to give false hope but bleeding doesn't always mean the worst.

Could you get bloods from the doc?

I don't really know what to say

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[millielaura]

This happened with first chemical had bfps then one day the frer went bfn and then bled that day . Xxx

 

[Emily0505]

Oh hun I'm so sorry

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[millielaura]

Feel so gutted and poor OH having the work friend announce their pregnancy today. Everyones all abuzz about it at work etc.
I'm just so relieved we are getting referred and that at least I ovulated later this month rather than 17 day cycles xxx

 

[angel6901]

Oh god millie, I'm so so sorry, I just don't know what to say hunny, sending you loads of virtual hugs
it's so unfair, I'm truly devestastated for you xxxx

 

[millielaura]

Thank you xxx
Just trying to keep positive. I feel gutted but at least I'm now not sitting worrying over tests. I def had a funny feeling it wasn't gonna work out.
Xxx

 

[Emily0505]

I'm sure you are both gutted hun, can't begin to imagine how you feel. But, like you say, great that you know circulated and that you've got your referral.



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[angel6901]

You have got your referral and i'm sure once you start the Clomid you will get your rainbow baby, I really feel for you sweetie... life is so unfair but just know that we are all here for you xxxx

 

[rachyboo]

So sorry millie must be so hard hun but as angel said hopefully u will start clomid soon and that will work.
I find this forum so helpful full of info and support. I was thinking It's funny we all from totally different walks of life, all ttc different periods of time, different methods but all wanting the same outcome
Babydust to everyone and hugs to all x x

 

[Clairabelle]

Oh Millie, I'm so sorry to hear this I don't know what to say. Big hugs xxx

 

[millielaura]

Thanks everyone
I'm so greatful for this forum!!
Looking forward to referral appointment now
I do know that next time I get a bfp I'm just going to forget about chemicals and m/c's etc and enjoy it cause it has been so horrendous being so worked up and anxious about it and obsessive with testing! Feel gutted but almost a sense of relief too as was getting so so worked up about that frer earlier out of my mind with anxiety etc not knowing.

Just got to keep remembering that we will get there! Xx

 

[Clairabelle]

You will definitely get there Millie. Focusing on your referral will be good. How long will it take? xx

 

[millielaura]

I'm not sure. Its been almost 5 weeks and no appt letter yet. I think when I ring up docs I'm gonna get on to them about where it is haha xxxx

 

[Emily0505]

Hopefully it won't take long to come through. Def get on to the docs about it when you call them.

How are you today hun?

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[Clairabelle]

Won't hurt to chase it up Millie and hopefully you will hear something very soon. Hope you're feeling ok after a good night's sleep.
Well looks like I'm out this month. Been loo this morning and very pale pink upon wiping. Also mild aching in tummy, so I think she is well and truly on her way.... grrr !!!

 

[Emily0505]

Boo! Bloody witch!

I'm thinking I shall give up on opks for this cycle after today. I'm pretty certain that I ovulated on CD15 as I was in a fair amount of pain and had a positive opk the day before. Why my books still have such good lines on them now I just don't know but they are starting to annoy me with all this confusion so I think I'll do one this afternoon and then leave it at that. I must just have a high level of hormones atm.

So after today no more peeing on sticks for me until hopefully a nice bfp hpt in a week or so!

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[Emily0505]

By books I mean opks! Bloody autocorrect!

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[Clairabelle]

I don't use opk's Emily, cos I know they would probably just confuse me lol. I get the ewcm and ovulation pains so I just let myself be guided by that. It sounds like you get good ovulation symptoms yourself so if the opk's are confusing and stressing you, it might be a good idea to ditch them. Our problem is getting the opportunity to dtd around the right time !! With 2 teenagers and an 11 yr old in the house, and our 19 month old still sleeping in our room (and in our bed most of the time) it makes it pretty difficult lol. xx

 

[Emily0505]

My opks have always been pretty reliable and easy to use and read. I normally get a positive then a very positive then the next day the lines are practically gone. This cycle however, I got my two positives as normal but post ov the lines have not disappeared and are still fairly strong although def not positive.

I'll use them again next cycle but shall stop for this cycle as there's no point in stressing over them.

We can generally dtd when we need to but hubby is in the process of starting a new job which is obviously playing on his mind somewhat. We are in with a chance for sure:

Fri - CD13 +opk dtd
Sat- CD14 ++opk dtd
Sun- CD 15 ++ov pains . Tried to dtd but no joy.

I'm hoping there were some swimmers left from Sat night ready and waiting but would have liked some fresh ones too! Still never mind eh, just got to wait and see now. Fingers crossed

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[millielaura]

I'm gonna start opk'ing prperly again and temping. I don't neeed to opk as such as we dtd regularly throughout whole cycle so I know we can't miss it but I want to be sure when AF's will be due etc.
Sounds like you ovulated on sunday and just have high leftover hormones from the surge

So my friend said her consultant advised dts every three days during the cycle then every day around fertile time. What do you girls think? We've never only dtd every 3 days ha ha would feel like we were restricting it just for this making a baby stuff . But I think I may try and see if it gives us some strong spermies. Xxx