Curse of Facebook

[lillie]

I miscarried on the 15th March and was keeping my pregnancy quiet until week 12. Now I log onto Facebook for the first time since to find that one of my 'friends' posted 'sorry to hear you lost the baby' on my bloody public page! Now everyone knows whats happened. Jesus Christ - I told everyone to keep it quiet! Fuming! So angry I could vomit.

Next time NO-ONE knows (except you guys)

 

[karenandbump]

OMG - what on earth possessed her to do that!!! Can u remove it or will people have already seen it by now? xxx

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

I would hit her round the head a bit!

 

[lillie]

I removed it, but its probably too late. I expect everyone has seen it. I sent her a thunderous email that'll have her eyes bleeding.

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

Good for you, she had no right at all - sorry to be so blunt before! People like that really get me mad. I am genuinely sorry to hear about your mc xx

 

[JJ Mum]

Oh god what a nightmare for you Becky glad you told her what for!
she obviously has no real sensitive bone in her body to do that

 

[karenandbump]

I agree with RM - she needs a slap! Stuff like that is tough to deal with without an announcment to the world at large - I mc in Jan and would have been devestated if anyone had put that on my fb page! Glad u sent her a harsh e-mail - hopefully you are about to get one hell of an apology xxx

 

[scaredmum2be]

I also had this done to me and everyone heard about it at the time i was in hospital so couldnt delete it until i came out but was quite annoyed when some one had posted it on wall.
Just tell them your really peed off with what they did an make it clear & also dont tell them again in the future just wait until you've had a scan at 12 weeks before telling anyone. Its very hard to trust people these days.

Although were sorry to hear now that youve said
I also tried telling people in there inbox rather than it going out on to main page but someone got there before me so i was bit annoyed at it myself. I know how ya feel, people have no thought or consideration xx

 

[ToffeePop]

Facebook - a place for people who have no common sense to post things guaranteed to annoy relatives, cause relationship break-ups, and lose people their jobs...

What a tool of a "friend". I mean - WHO writes ultra-personal details on a publicly viewed site when you could have fk knows who on your friends list? Lack of tact, thought and brain on that one. No wonder you wrote her a snotty e-mail I'd be ready to skin her alive!

 

[mopmum4X]

I agree with toffee!! Lillie sorry about your mc, alot of us have gone through it so were here for you. x

 

[Wobbles]

Not something you do first unless you have personally made people aware through one of your own feeds of your loss.

How insensitive

Was this friend also a person you had asked to keep it quiet?

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

omg hun! how insensitive of her. she need a good slap!
how dare she announce your personal life to the world!

i don't have face book, because of reasons like this - i hate it!

hope that your alright xx

 

[Sam's Mum]

That's awful I can't believe anyone would be so insensitive - you shouldn't even need to ask people to keep it quiet. I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[Mamafy]

I'd be so annoyed

 

[MrsR]

Oh god what a ******!!! x this is exactly why I don't have face book/Twitter etc and never will! x x I'm so sorry for your loss chick x