Hi all,I signed up here really just to ask a question that I can't ask in real life,because a lot of people particularly mothers seem to think I'm some sort of monster.
3 years ago my partner miscarried a baby we couldn't afford and I certainly didn't want us to have,in fact just a week before she had been considering abortion so I didn't think it was such a big deal to her either.
To me the fact she then lost it was not a very big deal at all,but she's still grieving and resents me for not feeling the same.
The only part about the whole situation that bothers me is that it upsets her.
Aside from being there for her as I always have been,how can I better support her?
I cannot understand her point of view,I've tried to for a long time,but don't think I ever will.
3 years ago my partner miscarried a baby we couldn't afford and I certainly didn't want us to have,in fact just a week before she had been considering abortion so I didn't think it was such a big deal to her either.
To me the fact she then lost it was not a very big deal at all,but she's still grieving and resents me for not feeling the same.
The only part about the whole situation that bothers me is that it upsets her.
Aside from being there for her as I always have been,how can I better support her?
I cannot understand her point of view,I've tried to for a long time,but don't think I ever will.