Durhamchance
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I had an emergency section with my first, so didn't have a lot of choice, but this time next week I'm hopefully going to have the option of an elective section the next day or wait to see if labour starts. The reasoning is that baby has been changing position, so it was out of my hands. If baby is behaving I don't have to have the section (it's a long story)
Anyway, OH is definitely leaning towards me having the section next week regardless of baby's position. He likes that he can plan for it, we can plan childcare for our toddler, that he won't have to watch me labour again. He worries about leaving me at home as his work is an hour away and he won't be able to get to me quickly if things kick off etc. I keep having to remind him that it's still major surgery and it comes with risks. He asked me what those risks were and I went a bit blank. Can you help me list them?!
I'm thinking:
Risk of blood clots
Extra strain on my heart
Risk of infection
Excessive bleeding could lead to blood transfusion?
I'm sure there's many more possible complications, and I want to be more armed with the facts before I have to decide.
Anyway, OH is definitely leaning towards me having the section next week regardless of baby's position. He likes that he can plan for it, we can plan childcare for our toddler, that he won't have to watch me labour again. He worries about leaving me at home as his work is an hour away and he won't be able to get to me quickly if things kick off etc. I keep having to remind him that it's still major surgery and it comes with risks. He asked me what those risks were and I went a bit blank. Can you help me list them?!
I'm thinking:
Risk of blood clots
Extra strain on my heart
Risk of infection
Excessive bleeding could lead to blood transfusion?
I'm sure there's many more possible complications, and I want to be more armed with the facts before I have to decide.