sarah1
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Hello ladies, I haven't posted here for what feels like forever. So firstly apologies for that. I have been nipping on now and again to see how everyone is doing.
Unfortunately this is also goodbye. After a number of years of misery, hubby and I stopped all of our treatment today. None of it felt right for us, so after a lot of discussion we made a decision. We saw an adoption advisor a few months ago and just knew that thats what we were supposed to do all along. We always planned to have one of our own and adopt one, so we're just kinda missing a bit out of the original plan.
If I happen to get pg naturally we will see how it goes, but if not we will be applying for adoption at the beginning of next year. We are hoping to adopt a school age child of around 5.
I feel excited and relieved and not at all regretful. At times it will still be difficult, but I am looking forward to just enjoying 'us' again and never having to go back to that horrible place. We've booked a holiday to Spain for this summer and will hopefully be spending Xmas this year in Las Vegas, can't wait.
Good luck to everyone, I may pop on every now and then to see all your BFPs.
Bye and thanks - I couldn't have gotten through the whole thing without reading all your lovely posts and advice xxxxxxxx
Unfortunately this is also goodbye. After a number of years of misery, hubby and I stopped all of our treatment today. None of it felt right for us, so after a lot of discussion we made a decision. We saw an adoption advisor a few months ago and just knew that thats what we were supposed to do all along. We always planned to have one of our own and adopt one, so we're just kinda missing a bit out of the original plan.
If I happen to get pg naturally we will see how it goes, but if not we will be applying for adoption at the beginning of next year. We are hoping to adopt a school age child of around 5.
I feel excited and relieved and not at all regretful. At times it will still be difficult, but I am looking forward to just enjoying 'us' again and never having to go back to that horrible place. We've booked a holiday to Spain for this summer and will hopefully be spending Xmas this year in Las Vegas, can't wait.
Good luck to everyone, I may pop on every now and then to see all your BFPs.
Bye and thanks - I couldn't have gotten through the whole thing without reading all your lovely posts and advice xxxxxxxx