it is what works for you, I really wanted to boob feed, but my first one just liked suck my boobs, first day and 8 hours later, he was still sucking. I was knacked, so I pumped it out for his next feed and it fell on the floor. So after 2 days the nurse gave me some bottled milk, he gulped it all in a sec! Key: Must sleep, more than worry about the presure that comes with feeding baby. Happy mum happy baby! This time I will try and pump out milk. Joy of my boy being born new years eve, nurses party, I just wanted sleep!