Hi so I got my bfp 2 days ago feeling very scared as last few months I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks ending in a medical with tablets and a d and c .....feel very lucky to have got a bfp on the first month of trying
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Hi Hun I am sorry for what you have been through and it's totally understandable that you will be scared! I am terrified after losing my baby boy at 36 weeks in May. I am 6 weeks and everyday is tough but I am also grateful to have a BFP it's a mixed bag of emotions! There are a lot of us with rainbows on board In tri 1 under may mummies and BFP after recurrent miscarriage threads so join us and we can all be scared together! Xx are u having early scans? X
Firstly congratulations! I am in exactly the same boat -- I had a mmc at 12 weeks - I spent 7 years ttc and went for my 12w scan only to be told this news. This was in may. Just found out I'm pregnant again and I am going to try and not tell anyone until after the 12w scan, even my partner! I told lots of people last time, I was so over the moon I couldn't help myself! The worst thing was - one of my best friends announced to me she was pregnant in between the bad news at the scan and the d&c! How did I cope?! I don't know! We would have been having them a week apart and it's painful to see her and how pregnant she is now.
So hoping this doesnt happen this time, will be coming on here to talk about everything instead of telling people too wary this time, so im here if you want to chat to someone who has gone through the same thing xx
Thanks v1ck1 xx I'm 4w4d. Doctors on monday. How far are you? Do you think I can ask for an early scan then? They didn't mention anything when I had my mc. I've only had one mc though. I'm trying to think positively about this one. I felt very unwell during the last pregnancy and was very stressed so in a way I kind of blame myself. I'm in a much better place now though. Xx