Hi all, just made this profile & a little unsure of how this works. Anyway, here goes.. I do apologise as it may be a long post! So I got my BFP on Friday, using those dip stick tests I took 3 as I didn't believe it! Anyway due to it still not sinking in I went out and got a clear blue digital one with the weeks window showing and up pops 'pregnant 1-2 weeks' seeing it in words was a more real shock haha. Problem is I am in a very new relationship, we only started dating the very beginning of January so not even a full month yet (I know, I know very stupid of us) I have two children of my own and he has three of his own. It has come as a shock (well our carelessness has resulted in this obviously). We haven't really spoken much about it but he has pretty much hinted he doesn't want any more children just yet, which is understandable. But I am sat here wondering how I even feel right now, I don't feel like I could ever possibly terminate but i can't bring myself to say that to him yet, I just said I need some time to think about it all. I am a person who very much takes the whole "what is meant to be will be" type thing pretty serious. But on the other hand I feel so selfish for not taking what he wants into consideration. I am at a complete loss here. I would really appreciate some advice as no body knows about this apart from us two. X