Hi all,
I thought I was doing much better, but had a major relapse today.
My sis is due soon and does nothing but talk about it. She kept trying to give me advice about my mc (she has NEVER had one) and how I should try again etc. I told her I wasn't ready, but she kept badgering me. Now she's posting all over fb about how she's a very proud mummy to be and how excited she is about her LO. I don't begrudge her this, and I wouldn't mind but her OH is a complete loser who doesn't really want the baby.
When I was pg, she even brought my potential parenting skills into question. This was my first pregnancy so I didn't know everything and she was really smugly telling me all about what it's like (this is her first pregnancy, so who knows why she thinks like this). I sometimes feel like the mc is nature's way of telling me I would be a crappy parent anyway, so to have her patronise me like this just makes that feeling worse.
I have seen her a few times since the mc and she has either avoided me or over compensated with her advice. I know it must be difficult for her to see me, but does she have to be like this? I already felt like this pregnancy was my last chance and now I just feel a bit worthless.
Sorry for the rant x x
I thought I was doing much better, but had a major relapse today.
My sis is due soon and does nothing but talk about it. She kept trying to give me advice about my mc (she has NEVER had one) and how I should try again etc. I told her I wasn't ready, but she kept badgering me. Now she's posting all over fb about how she's a very proud mummy to be and how excited she is about her LO. I don't begrudge her this, and I wouldn't mind but her OH is a complete loser who doesn't really want the baby.
When I was pg, she even brought my potential parenting skills into question. This was my first pregnancy so I didn't know everything and she was really smugly telling me all about what it's like (this is her first pregnancy, so who knows why she thinks like this). I sometimes feel like the mc is nature's way of telling me I would be a crappy parent anyway, so to have her patronise me like this just makes that feeling worse.
I have seen her a few times since the mc and she has either avoided me or over compensated with her advice. I know it must be difficult for her to see me, but does she have to be like this? I already felt like this pregnancy was my last chance and now I just feel a bit worthless.
Sorry for the rant x x