Aww Petchy, Reuben looks so grown up with his own plate! He's lovely.
Did your babies gag alot on finger foods to start with? For instance, I let Olivia munch on my banana today and she bit a chunk off (her bottom two teeth are quite big now) then gagged, retched and spat it out. Do you think she's just not ready or was it a daft food to try it with? She also did it with a rice cake, she didn't seem keen on sucking it until it was soft - just went straight in for the bite in half tactic and then she was coughing and her eyes were watering so I patted her back and leaned her forward and she spat that out too.
I think I'm quite nervous when I give her the finger foods so perhaps I am over-reacting or did your babies cope fine from the start?
Lucy