fairypants
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So peed off right now! It's probably just aswell my hubby's gone to work today...
I woke up at 4 this morning, bursting for a wee, so managed to climb out of bed without waking hubby, but when I came back from the bathroom he'd spread himself over the entire bed. So, very kindly of me, instead of trying to move him & waking him up knowing he'd got to go to work soon, I grabbed my dressing gown and went off to try getting some more sleep on the sofa. I actually managed to get another couple of hours in before my alarm went off to make sure he was up and felt quite good. Got him up, made his lunch and reminded him that he needed to pop in to my parents on the way to work to feed the cat as they're away. He then went and flopped on the bed and fell back to sleep, which I hadn't realised as I'd been pottering about sorting washing and stuff, so when I woke him up and told him the time, he leapt up and got in the shower...fine, no problem, but when he got out the shower, already late and I said to him "don't forget the cat on your way!" as I handed him his lunch...well the response I got was far from pleasant!! He was so fricking rude about it and stood there shouting at me!! I could have slapped him if I hadn't burst into tears. He then went storming off, slamming doors and throwing a proper childlike strop, just to come back 10 minutes later to say his boss had called and said he didn't need to be in for another hour!! He came back like it hadn't even happened and wondered why I was so upset and wouldn't speak to him. I think I might have just told him what I think of his latest selfish attitude if I'd said anything!! Especially as after his long day of work yesterday when he ran in the door, grabbed the dinner I'd made for him and buggered off down the pub for a couple of hours, leaving me sat on my own again!!
I'd planned a whole load of little bits to do to keep myself busy while he was out all day, but now I've lost all motivation to do anything cos it was all for his benefit and now I'm so pissed off and feeling so hurt, I don't want to do anything! Grr! As if I don't feel crappy and useless enough lately, I really didn't need him making what had started out as a good day, into feeling so rubbish again!!
Sorry for the rant, just really stuck right now cos everyone's away this weekend, he's at work and I'm sat here on my own again!! And I've not even got any chocolate or ice cream to make me feel better cos he finished all that last night!!
I woke up at 4 this morning, bursting for a wee, so managed to climb out of bed without waking hubby, but when I came back from the bathroom he'd spread himself over the entire bed. So, very kindly of me, instead of trying to move him & waking him up knowing he'd got to go to work soon, I grabbed my dressing gown and went off to try getting some more sleep on the sofa. I actually managed to get another couple of hours in before my alarm went off to make sure he was up and felt quite good. Got him up, made his lunch and reminded him that he needed to pop in to my parents on the way to work to feed the cat as they're away. He then went and flopped on the bed and fell back to sleep, which I hadn't realised as I'd been pottering about sorting washing and stuff, so when I woke him up and told him the time, he leapt up and got in the shower...fine, no problem, but when he got out the shower, already late and I said to him "don't forget the cat on your way!" as I handed him his lunch...well the response I got was far from pleasant!! He was so fricking rude about it and stood there shouting at me!! I could have slapped him if I hadn't burst into tears. He then went storming off, slamming doors and throwing a proper childlike strop, just to come back 10 minutes later to say his boss had called and said he didn't need to be in for another hour!! He came back like it hadn't even happened and wondered why I was so upset and wouldn't speak to him. I think I might have just told him what I think of his latest selfish attitude if I'd said anything!! Especially as after his long day of work yesterday when he ran in the door, grabbed the dinner I'd made for him and buggered off down the pub for a couple of hours, leaving me sat on my own again!!
I'd planned a whole load of little bits to do to keep myself busy while he was out all day, but now I've lost all motivation to do anything cos it was all for his benefit and now I'm so pissed off and feeling so hurt, I don't want to do anything! Grr! As if I don't feel crappy and useless enough lately, I really didn't need him making what had started out as a good day, into feeling so rubbish again!!
Sorry for the rant, just really stuck right now cos everyone's away this weekend, he's at work and I'm sat here on my own again!! And I've not even got any chocolate or ice cream to make me feel better cos he finished all that last night!!