Appointment outcome

[Turn18]

I am not making it up, the above posts make me feel like I am being selfless but I'm not. I joined this forum to gain confidence and meet other mums. I would never fake something like that when there is so many vulnerable women who are desperate for children including my sister. I am not one of these people that lie about things especially this, I just have confussed you all and I understand that now after re-reading it over and over. No, it isn't a convenience, I thought I would document it as many other women have done and ask for support on premature labour witch you all have been very positive and helpful. I'm an anxious stressed out mum to be and I thought joining a forum may help, it has in some ways but I dislike being judged and though of in this way...
(Everything in my time line I have written down in my notes.)
Time line:
•11:20am- set off for A&E.
•12pm- bp taken and bloods drawn.
•12:10pm- cardiotocography and scan to check baby's heart, placenta, blood flow, my dilation was 1.5cm.
•12:20pm- diagnosed with premature labour.
•1pm- moved from a&e to the maternity unit, I was able to rest a little. Baby's heart-rate dropped.
•2:13pm- I was given a progesterone injection and tocolytics.
•2:35pm- was resting, then slept aprox 20mins. baby's heart rate spiked.
•3pm- woke up and was resting. bp taken and temp.
•4pm- started spotting. Baby's heart rate dropped again.
•4:30pm- given more iv fluids.
•5:23pm- was able to get up for the toilet.
•6pm- bp taken, also temp.
•7:41pm- 2nd exam 2cm dilated (baby's heart rate is bouncing).
•8pm- was able to sit up was having contractions.
•9pm- bedrest.
•10:24pm was allowed to take a walk to the delivery suit. I haven't moved since this time.
•11pm- I was allowed some toast.
I am a wreck but I'm trying to stay positive.

 

[Wobbles]

I just need to clear up how you are still connecting to your BT home hub?

 

[_GG_]

I just need to clear up how you are still connecting to your BT home hub?

It follows a pattern. I have seen it too many times now. It's totally unfair on the caring and worried mums on here who are trying to cope with their own difficulties and yet give their time to others who are stringing them along. It's part of forums that people come and do this. Thank you for being an admin that has looked into this swiftly.

 

[Turn18]

I was discharged at 9am, as last night was a good night (no more contractions) on the terms of bed rest and antibiotics to treat a UTI that wasn't picked up yesterday. I haven't been stringing you along, I have genuinely been in hospital. I have a sister who has been ttc for years and is still unsuccessful, why would I ever lie about the baby coming early? Seriously if I was to be lying I would never string you on, I would be up front and honest, but especially when people on here have had mc and unsuccessful ivf. I feel like a disappointment because when someone looks at this thread they will see me as a lying cow or so I think people see me as. Some of you have been really positive which is what I needed yesterday when I really panicked. I would rather not be blocked/reported as I joined for support and others to build my confidence up... Thanks

 

[Wobbles]

Your IP address has not changed. You are connected to a BT home hub.

To clarify:

• Every search you do logs an IP address
• Every thread you read logs an IP address
• Every post you submit logs an IP address

You have been connected to the same internet connection at home and in hospital.

 

[Turn18]

Oh I don't know then, I don't have my location on could it be that? I have bt wifi on my phone also?

 

[Wobbles]

Yes you can use BTWifi on your handheld device if you are a BT BB customer but the IP still changes.

 

[anaphil]

Also the timeline is SUPER precise.

 

[_GG_]

Wobbles, I've been through this as a mod on a forum where a long time member faked being killed in action in Afghanistan. If the IP address has remained the same, there is absolutely no way it can be explained away. Yes, you can remotely connect to your home network, which many people like this believes will satisfy such questions, but you cannot connect via your home IP address if you are not physically connected to it within its range...approx 20-40 metres from the router.

Wobbles, thank you. You've totally shut this down now as no explanation will work from this point.

 

[Turn18]

Thank you GG for your help

 

[KHTW]

 

[Wobbles]

Oh I know _GG_ ... after 10 years it gets a little boring is all haha.

I've been watching since last night but it's often worth watching the answers to questions ... then I have to come out and show my face when the members stop tip-toeing

 

[Wobbles]

I'm guessing this is a reaction to the same thanks that made me feel the same way lol!

 

[_GG_]

Oh I know ... after 10 years it gets a little boring.

I've been watching since last night but it's often worth watching the answers to questions ... then I have to come out and show my face when the members stop tip-toeing

Such a difficult thing to moderate, especially when the last thing we want is to withdraw support from a fellow pregnant mum to be. X

 

[KHTW]

I'm guessing this is a reaction to the same thanks that made me feel the same way lol!

Indeed!! For lack of words lol x

 

[Shanivy]

GG between here and our tri 3 I think you've made a friend Some people are shameless

 

[_GG_]

GG between here and our tri 3 I think you've made a friend Some people are shameless

Lol. I doubt she's done yet. The thanks is quite a standard response at this stage. If she's not blocked, we won't have heard the last from her...unless she reads this, thinks she's more intelligent so doesn't come back to prove me wrong.

Just be aware for new posters popping up lol

 

[Wobbles]

I always say is your support is never wasted!

1. It shows exactly the purpose for this forum. Guests will lurk first and when they see you are a group of supportive ladies they will sign up for that support themselves where they may be feeling alone beforehand ... not any more.
2. You advice quite often helps someone else ... so like I say never wasted!

 

[GBLiz]

I always say is your support is never wasted!

1. It shows exactly the purpose for this forum. Guests will lurk first and when they see you are a group of supportive ladies they will sign up for that support themselves where they may be feeling alone beforehand ... not any more.
2. You advice quite often helps someone else ... so like I say never wasted!

i just hate to see people getting emotionally dragged into a situation because if they dont realise its fake they can feel genuinely upset for the person , and be quite badly affected by it . in my last pregnancy there was the same thing on the forum i was on, it seemed a bit weird that her partner came and updated for us that their baby was being born , and died, but there werent so many holes in the story and a lot of people were very upset by what they thought was a tragic outcome but it was all made up. ....

 

[_GG_]

I always say is your support is never wasted!

1. It shows exactly the purpose for this forum. Guests will lurk first and when they see you are a group of supportive ladies they will sign up for that support themselves where they may be feeling alone beforehand ... not any more.
2. You advice quite often helps someone else ... so like I say never wasted!

i just hate to see people getting emotionally dragged into a situation because if they dont realise its fake they can feel genuinely upset for the person , and be quite badly affected by it . in my last pregnancy there was the same thing on the forum i was on, it seemed a bit weird that her partner came and updated for us that their baby was being born , and died, but there werent so many holes in the story and a lot of people were very upset by what they thought was a tragic outcome but it was all made up. ....

Oh god that's awful