I'm really scared now on whats going to happen it's all my fault that my baby girl is in stress

The nurse just came in and I asked why they did 2 and she said to check how dilated I am ...
Next time the midwife comes in ask her to explain it all very clearly, what they think is going on, what are they doing to stop it.
Is it tocolytics like atosiban for Prem labour, or a magnesium sulphate infusion for suspected pre-eclampsia.
Do they think your bleed is down to prem labour, partial placental abruption or something else.
I would also be asking to speak with the obstetric registrar to see why either they or their consultant have not been the lead professional in your care at 27 weeks, Im surprised a midwife has been doing the examinations, unless at your trust this is normal but I have worked on 3 major delivery units in the Midlands and midwives do not tend to examine women like this.
What has suggested the baby is in distress? A cardiotogograph or a uterine artery Doppler?
Im not surprised youre confused, Im really confused and I do it every day!