xx emma xx
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Ive wrote a thread about this before but just feel i need to write this to maybe stop me crying. Some of you know i suffer quite badly from anxiety and being referred to hospital about it in March as its taking over my life and i am off sick with it.
Its my OHs parents wedding anniversary so are having a party at his aunts house, there is people there that i would be meeting for the first time. Today i got so terrified at the idea of being in this situation that i was in floods of tears. My OH as usual is amazing with me and said i dont need to go if its making me like this. So in the end i decided i couldnt go. My OH is there just now and he has been texting me all the time to make sure im ok. Part of me felt like 'i want to be there' so i ironed my things and went to put my make up on and since then i cannot stop crying. I feel like there is a brick wall stopping me from getting ready to go. So now ive told my OH i just cant do it, i want to but i cant. I dont even know what im expecting from writing this post i just feel like this is taking over my life, i cry almost everyday.
I feel so so bad for my OH that he has to deal with this and watch me being in this state on a daily basis. I just feel so bad about myself and think how the f**k can i take care of a baby if shit like this gets to me. I just want to feel normal and be happy. I have a wonderful OH, having a baby and getting married next year, yet i feel so down.
I got an earlier appointment to see a psychiatrist who will assess me on 10th March, I just so hope they can help. Sorry for the long post xx
Its my OHs parents wedding anniversary so are having a party at his aunts house, there is people there that i would be meeting for the first time. Today i got so terrified at the idea of being in this situation that i was in floods of tears. My OH as usual is amazing with me and said i dont need to go if its making me like this. So in the end i decided i couldnt go. My OH is there just now and he has been texting me all the time to make sure im ok. Part of me felt like 'i want to be there' so i ironed my things and went to put my make up on and since then i cannot stop crying. I feel like there is a brick wall stopping me from getting ready to go. So now ive told my OH i just cant do it, i want to but i cant. I dont even know what im expecting from writing this post i just feel like this is taking over my life, i cry almost everyday.
I feel so so bad for my OH that he has to deal with this and watch me being in this state on a daily basis. I just feel so bad about myself and think how the f**k can i take care of a baby if shit like this gets to me. I just want to feel normal and be happy. I have a wonderful OH, having a baby and getting married next year, yet i feel so down.
I got an earlier appointment to see a psychiatrist who will assess me on 10th March, I just so hope they can help. Sorry for the long post xx