And then there were 2 :)

[deedee84]

Even though ive switched Elexis's room back around shes still not been happy at nap/bedtime, both times i took her up for her nap and for bed yesterday she clung to me and cried when i put her down! Really regretting moving that room around in the first place now, its really unsettled her for some reason When she finally went to sleep last night she did sleep through so wasnt all bad!

Elexis also had a minor accident yesterday, we have an upright vac but have to use the nozzle and turn it the other way around so the brushes face upwards otherwise it burns the lino (really need to get it fixed) Anyway, i was vaccuming and OH was on the internet, i thought he was keeping an eye on Elexis, then i heard the vac go nuts, looked around and Elexis was stood with one foot on the brushes, she didnt think to step back off, OH grabbed her and she started crying, he checked her foot but it seemed ok. She had her nap and when i brought her back down she was moaning everytime she walked and looked to be trying to walk on her tiptoes on that foot so i took a look and she has a huge blister on the sole of her foot ive kept it clean and put germolene on it. Luckily shes managing to walk on her tip toes on that foot so shes getting around ok, but i feel awful now!

Elise has had bad toothache for 3 days on the trot now! Got sent home from school yesterday because of it! OH said keep her off until the tooth comes out as its wobbly but that could take weeks yet! Gonna get her in at the dentist but tbh i dont think he will do much other than tell her to keep wobbling it and take paracetamol until it comes out! Poor kid! Toothache is the worst as it is for us adults never mind a 6 year old!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

aww both ladies in the wars today. poor things.
I need a new hoover to its just so unexciting shopping for one!
Good luck with foot blister and sore tooth!!!
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

Ha yes too true hunni!

Elexis has carried on improvising with the walking today, the blister is still up and quite hard but shes been a trooper and not moaned as much today about it!

As for Elise, i took her to the dentist and he ended up pulling the tooth out, i think he chose to do it as it was already slightly wobbly, she was so brave and had the injection, it wasnt so straight forward and only half came out so the dentist was picking and prodding until he got the other half out but he got there in the end and missus didnt moan once, so proud...and no tooth ache for her now

Elexis is still not happy about bedtimes, we have had tears at nap time and bed time again, but for not as long at least, i really could bloody well kick myself! Damn those stupid ideas of mine!

xx

 

[deedee84]

Yesterday was a day full of "Finally's" Firstly Elexis's blister "finally" popped and so shes walking on her foot again hurray! Secondly, i put her up to bed last night and she didnt cry "finally" got there after 4 days of her being unsettled, all because i changed her bedroom around its a shame i cant say this morning that my kids have "finally" mastered the art of a lie in...6:15am Elexis woke, i tiptoed to the loo hoping she might go back off to see Elise peering back at me from her bed so we all got up at stupid 'o clock, well apart from OH he gets to stay in bed all cosy without a care for as long as his little heart desires alright for some!!!!!

Nothing planned for me this weekend, Elise has got more of a social life than me this weekend, shes going to play at her friends house all day today and then a party tomorrow lots to write about at school Monday then!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

Oh lovely , thing is it was a lovely idea to change her bedroom round and give her more space , its just unexpected that it freaked her out so much.
I'd be so cross at OH not getting up. He better be doing some good teas to make up for it!!

How are you doing?
Hope you have a good week
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

haha yes Daisy he does make lovely tea's, we had fajita's today, was very yummy!

I'm doing ok thank you hunni, sick of getting colds and what not though, thats autumn/winter for you i guess!

Elexis's foot is finally better, if you ask her about her poorly she grabs her foot for a look haha, bless her! But now we have a blister on her gum, looked it up and it seems its normal for this to happen when they are teething, its not bothering her so ive just been keeping an eye on it!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

Hi Lovely how has your week been so far and the tooth dramas is it all over now?
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

My little family have stressed me out something chronic these last few days, had a couple of downer days Sunday and Monday, felt ok yesterday and actually woke feeling fine this morning but eventually the loves of my life have gradually wound me up and peeved me off!!!! OH started it but not waking me up for the school run,i woke literally 5 minutes before i needed to set off, asked him to find my wellies out the cupboard while i ran to the loo, he said he couldnt find em, didnt even move anything in the cupboard to look, just opened the door and bam...looking over, so i had a quick look but didnt have time, couldnt find my brolly which means a certain child has had it somewhere, so i go to school and get wet through, come home and remind OH im having my hair done friday, so he starts moaning about the cost, £30...i mean seriously, i spends a small fortune on his bloody poker over the month and thats exactly what i said to him, so hes got monk on, told me to do what i like and skulked off to bed, then Elise is just mythering, nagging, winding her sister up so they were both sat there screeching at other and screaming right in my lug hole because lets be fair how they are at the minute they may as well just sit on my bloody head!!!! I need to go to bed and hide...fed up and pissed off and just wanna curl up in a ball and cry! Sorry for the downbeat post, i just needed to offload!! Dont think it helps that im all snotted up and my eyes are stinging either! meh!!!!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

aww big hugs lady , will ear plugs and valium help any?

Good luck calming them down , getting them through tea bath and bed in record time so that you can have a few minutes to yourself.

Expceting a man to find anything in a cupboard is a step to far though waht were you thinking!!
happy new hair on friday heres to an easier weekend for mummy.
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

Thanks hunni, i ended up going to bed at 6:30 after i had put the kids to bed had a little cry and enjoyed the drama of emmerdale and corro, ended up asleep just after 9 and so up bright and early this morning with no yawning involved, just plenty of sneezing! And yeah i should of known better than to ask a man to search in a cupboard for something although i do need that welly out of there as soon as, its the scare grounds tuesday and i have a feeling it may be very muddy and im not a fan of our "cupboard" it seems to have an enlarged family of daddy long legs residing in there and im not a huge fan of the beasts! May have to rely on the OH after all lol xx

 

[Daisy2011]

Oh , glad you caught up some sleep. How are you getting along with Elise has she settled down a bit? Is Ohs councilling helping him any? how are you were you going to investigate becoming a tatooist!! Did you find anywhere to train?

Happy week lovely and thankyou for your all freindship and support this crazy cycle !
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

Hey hunni, Elise is doing ok, the only problem we have to get around now is her not doing as she is told and having to ask her countless times before she has a paddy and ends up getting into trouble, oh joys...but as mum said, if she sees that OH doesnt listen to me she will copy his behaviour and think that its ok to not listen or do as she is told! So i had words with OH.
As for OH there was a waiting list for group therapy, he starts it next month but sees his psychologist on 31st October anyway, he's not harmed himself since his last hospital admission, think he knows he went too far and i think that scared him!

Regarding the tattooist thing, all the courses i found were quite pricey plus you need to get someone to take you on to get 5 years experience working alongside and learning from a professional, ive contacted a fair few and all have been so ignorant and not replied, my tattoist said that next year he may want to take on an apprentice so to check back with him then!

No need to thank me for my friendship and support either hunni, thats what this forum is for completely routing for you month in month out and even though i dont come on here as often as i used to update i still quickly check in on you to see how things are going, i wish you all the luck and dust in the world, you deserve your dream so much

xxxx

 

[Daisy2011]

aww thankyou thats such a lovely thing.
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

Its all true hun im sure many other PFers will agree with me too

Nothing much to report this side of things, Elise had her halloween disco at school today, all dressed up as a witch, she loved it, came out all hyper and buzzing, which then escalated into girly screeching and screaming with Elexis during den making, loved seeing them playing happily together rather than fighting and arguing

Elexis has more teeth, she can now point to where her, eyes, nose, mouth, teeth and hair are too! Growing up so quickly, shes so clever!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

aww thats adoreable, hope you have a lovely weekend.
x Daisy

 

[deedee84]

Little legs had a funny smell on her breath yesterday when she woke up, she has been super grouchy for the last 2 days, and then this morning i get up, shes still asleep...after half hour shes stood up waiting for me to come for her, i go up pop her light on and her bed is full of sick how she has not let me know is beyond me! Poor babe! her poop has been minging and runny too, so shes deffo got some horrid bug! She doesnt seem as whingy today at least though!
Her talking is getting much better an she can communicate with us better now, telling us what she wants and we can kind of understand her

Really looking forward to Christmas too, although i cant say im looking forward to the Christmas tree been ragged, as not only do we have a toddler thats into everything, we have a new kitten that will probably find it adventurous too :/ oh my days! Christmas day is going to be a bit weird too this year, were going to OH's mums, but she sad she will struggle to feed and seat all 15 people 15??!!! So shes going to do a buffet instead, shes still going to do turkey, prawn volovants, pigs in blankets etc, but also sandwiches and sausage rolls and the like, dont get me wrong i think the kids will love this so much more than a sit down dinner, but im all for tradition...i guess im willing to give it a go, but only because OH sad we will have a Christmas dinner Christmas eve and open a gift each just the 4 of us so that will be nice!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

Hello lovely, a bed full of sick that must have been a joy! poor girl with a bug. Hope that shes well again now .
How are you guys doing? Buffet xmas dinner! that will be novel! but like you say the kids will love it, my neice and nephew still have a plate with turkey and suasage and little else whislt we are all tucking into a plate full of trimmings! theyd much rather have a buffet to. - not whislt im in charge !

two more weeks until xmas trees go up and the first window on the advent calanders. Your girls are at great ages for xmas excitement, how lovely to see them on xmas eve so excited!!

let us know how you are doing soon.
I just popped in breifly, been staying away more lately and thankyou for writing lovely supportive things on my journal , had some tricky weeks.

Happy novemeber lovely
x Daidy

 

[deedee84]

Hey Daisy, thanks for popping by

Elexis is back to her normal self thankfully! And as a whole we're all doing ok! Not bought a thing hardly for xmas yet, leaving it last blumming minute as per going to have to be much more organised next year...although i say this every year haha! And yep...xmas buffet will be novel indeed...OH's niece is not impressed so OH has invited her to come over xmas eve for xmas dinner with us haha! At least were getting one even if its not xmas day!

I dont blame for you for staying away hunni, must be so difficult at times! You need facebook missus so i can keep updated on Jakey and all the wonderful things you do
I hope you're keeping well anyhow

xxx

 

[deedee84]

My Moo is teething again, although theres no whinging with it just plenty of runny nappies :gip:
She is very vocal now, copies words if you ask her to, she kinda has a conversation with you in her own language, so cute! She can identify most body parts too love having her sat on my knee asking her where her nose is, or her eyes!
She walks around like she owns the place, like Phil mitchell and the likes haha! Proper strutts her stuff!
When getting dressed she tried to put her own clothes on and has a massive obsession with shoes!

Elise is doing much better behaviour wise, i think it must be because she has got separated from a certain male friend, they are in different classes now and shes back with her original best friend Molly...shes like a different child lately! I dont mind getting some lip some of the times, it was almost every day before and a nightmare!

Jamie has started his group therapy today too he was so so nervous about going but came back upbeat and happy!

I'm dieting ha! Well you cant really call it a diet as you can do it gain weigh/muscles or just have it to promote a healthy lifestyle! Lots of vitamins being consumed thats for sure! Lost 6lb in a week and 11.5 inches in total from all over my body with a massive 6" coming off my belly! So so happy! I feel so much more energetic and positive! I cant say i have woken up and felt down as of yet and im onto my 2nd week its brilliant!

So yeah...everything is going brilliantly! Just need a lotto win for Christmas and ill be 100% on top of the world haha!

xx

 

[Daisy2011]

wow lovely 6 inches off one spot thats awesome, well done you, Im wishing for a big win for you to which will allow you to spread your wings a bit.

Lovely picture of you and LO pointing to body parts. so sweet and so glad that Jamie is feeling a bit better about things to.
Happy weekend lovely. xDaisy