an email i got from my mum
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nmf1987
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got a 3 page essay of a letter from her last night. still not apologising the whole letter just goes on about how she feels and that i was clearly just after money etc.
she said if i dont respond to it then it will tell her that i hate her. now i feel really bad. obviously i love and miss her but im not gonna just give in because of little threats. xxx
she said if i dont respond to it then it will tell her that i hate her. now i feel really bad. obviously i love and miss her but im not gonna just give in because of little threats. xxx
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She is manipulating you and that counts for harassment what she is doing is not only selfish but manipulative
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Bloody hell she seems like my dad! I'll put his letter up later cuz I want some advise on it too so I can't really say what to do... but If your mom is going to be like that then just ignore her, who is she to critise you or upset you especially when your pregnant... Your Mom has some serious growing up to do! Just like my dad, don't let her get the better of you hun... you've got a lovely baby on the way, your life is what you make it not what they want you to do... she is looking for your vote tbh and feels like you haven't gave it to her and your against her, just tell her to shuv the message up her flamming arse along with her money and clothes! 
good luck mate xx
good luck mate xx
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Oh jesus you poor lady........ you prob know in your head that ignoring her isthe right thing to do but in your heart she is your ' mum' and is supposed to be there for you no matter what..... through thick and thin and yet is prepared to throw everything away for what seems like jealousy and money. Thats just not good enough. She should be there for you.
I only know this because its almost a year to the day when my mum told me she f***ing hates me and never wants to see me again........ long story but sounds very similar to yours. Ive made the right decision to cut her out my life but doesnt mean it doesnt bloody kill me sometimes ( most of the time)
Youve got your OH and your little one to think about ...... try and stay strong..... lots of love xxxx
Mushy
I only know this because its almost a year to the day when my mum told me she f***ing hates me and never wants to see me again........ long story but sounds very similar to yours. Ive made the right decision to cut her out my life but doesnt mean it doesnt bloody kill me sometimes ( most of the time)
Youve got your OH and your little one to think about ...... try and stay strong..... lots of love xxxx
Mushy
