Lol - another day of feeling Today OH bank statement came, I take care of all the bills, statements and paper work etc...so I took it out the envelope to file it. Just as I was putting it in the box I notice that its a big statement for an account he doesnt even use? So I open it up to have a look and there are all these transactions on it, same person....different amounts. After adding it up its over £200 in 7 weeks. In 3 days he spent £80 odd quid? I was like wtf?! So I call him and after alot of erm, ah's and silence he says he spent it on an online computer game....buying gold for his character This online game by the way is the reason he leaves my house almost everytime he is over....he says he feels ill so he goes home and plays it or he cant come over as he is meeting up with his 'friends' at 7.30pm or whatever.... Now its his money yes, but for the past 4 months Ive been struggling, going without food etc....mostly to pay for baby things and I made sure OH had a nice crimbo as he had such a crappy year. Each month Ive been worrying myself stupid, and OH saying he has no money.....now I bloody know why! I absolutely hit the roof. He says I have no right to be mad, the baby has more than him already and its not going to kill him if he goes without a few things. Women in Africa have babies in a field with SWEET F.A so really I should stop moaning.... Am I right to be mad...? Hohnestly I could maim him today....sod throwing coke over him.