Merfairy
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Hi there,
I am popping in as I have a question on someone else's behalf actually and wonder if any advice is offered here.
A friend has a partner who has had the snip and he cannot have children, she is desperate for a child and I wonder if there is any advice here that I could pass on.
He won't have a reversal as he fears the risks and cost, she won't go for AI, adoption is out the question and not sure she is in to the idea of fostering!! She is very angry and bitter as she cannot get pregnant with her partner and I feel like I would like to offer some support. Cheating on him is not an option (quite rightly so) and she won't leave him; she is now 40 and I know she is really stressed? She had the chance to have some tests, checks internals etc etc, I guess to see what options there were for her, but she refused to be checked over (we all have to go through checks and tests don't we?) he is firing blanks due to visectamy, I don't know what to suggest?
Her and I have fallen out as I am 6 months pregnant and I felt guilty early on and didn't want to tell her and she seems to think I have had it easy, but I do have two angels so I have not had it so easy... so not sure what to do to try and patch things up?
Any advice or suggestion would be so appreciated...
I am popping in as I have a question on someone else's behalf actually and wonder if any advice is offered here.
A friend has a partner who has had the snip and he cannot have children, she is desperate for a child and I wonder if there is any advice here that I could pass on.
He won't have a reversal as he fears the risks and cost, she won't go for AI, adoption is out the question and not sure she is in to the idea of fostering!! She is very angry and bitter as she cannot get pregnant with her partner and I feel like I would like to offer some support. Cheating on him is not an option (quite rightly so) and she won't leave him; she is now 40 and I know she is really stressed? She had the chance to have some tests, checks internals etc etc, I guess to see what options there were for her, but she refused to be checked over (we all have to go through checks and tests don't we?) he is firing blanks due to visectamy, I don't know what to suggest?
Her and I have fallen out as I am 6 months pregnant and I felt guilty early on and didn't want to tell her and she seems to think I have had it easy, but I do have two angels so I have not had it so easy... so not sure what to do to try and patch things up?
Any advice or suggestion would be so appreciated...