5/6 DPO .... Anyone with me?

[angel6901]

Aww bless him... its really hard for men when they see us going through it every month and they feel bad, even tho its not their fault it doesnt happen...it would be so lovely if we could all get our BFP'S it would be the best Christmas pressie ever for our OH 's

 

[Lolie14]

I know its my fault we are having troubles. This fibroid I have, I have read so much and it causes fertility problems and a huge increase in the risk of miscarriage. I'm going for a chat with my gp in the new year to see about surgery. OH never mentions it and I know he doesn't blame me at all.

 

[Balthazar1275]

Sorry I've been absent today been busy puting up our Christmas tree and decorations. So excited for our 1st Christmas as a family of 3. I know my little boy won't know what's going on as he is only 8 months old but I want to make his 1st Christmas so special.

Anyway just catching up on everyone's posts.

Jess: sending you a hug and I hope you get your positivity back tomorrow. It's ok to have down days. TTC is so hard emotionally.

Emma: sorry you've had some spotting it could just be ovulation spotting. It happens as the egg hurts out of the follicle and it's a sign of good fertility.

Lolie: I hope your enjoy your yummy roast

Michelle x

 

[Jess07]

Thank u everyone ... Really appreciate all your support.

It's nice we are all in it together , n if BFNs then we will continue on....!
Hopefully will wake up feeling better ... Shopping trip then just one more late shift before my days off. I hate working 7 days in a row ... Grrrr.

Hope you all have a good nights kip xx

Sending lots of baby dust xx

 

[angel6901]

Morning ladies,
Well 5 dpo today, it's going so slow! !! Up to ovulation it went really fast but now it's dragging
So I'm going to post my 'symptoms' for the last few days and it may help others if by a miracle I do get bfp

Dpo 1-3 strange tummy feeling like achy but not painful, watery cm cervix low and soft

Dpo 4 brown spotting, feel very warm and a bit unwell stomach feels ok not achy like the last few days watery cm that evening, dtd and it was a bit uncomfortable got a little bit of pain after

Dpo 5 feel a bit better today, stomach feels fine, cm creamy and cervix higher and soft (sorry tmi) boobs feel a bit achy but nothing much else

Will update later if I get any other symptoms
How is everyone today ?

 

[Balthazar1275]

Hi everyone CD18 and 3dpo for me today.
Nothing much to report symptom wise,I'm hope it gets more interesting soon.
Totally agree with you Emma, the days are just dragging. Your symptoms are way more interesting than mine

Michelle x

 

[angel6901]

I know Michelle just can't wait till we all start testing!
I'm testing on Saturday as I prefer to test on a weekend but will only be 10dpo and cannot wait till the weekend after!! so then I will test every other day till AF arrives

When are other ladies testing? Xx

 

[angel6901]

Oh and it's lovely your little one is having his first Christmas Michelle, it's so special We have a special bauble that says 'Babys first Christmas' on which we got on joejoe's first christmas we will hang on the tree every year now ...hope to be able to buy another one for next year xxx

 

[Balthazar1275]

I bought a stocking for Riley that says "My 1st Christmas" on it so we have put that up on the fireplace. It would be lovely to have it up again next year for our 2nd baby if we are lucky enough to fall pregnant again.

Michelle x

 

[Jess07]

Hi ladies....

Emma all sounds so promising. Michelle fx u will get to put it up again next Xmas. Hope we all get bfps!

I'm 9/10dpo today , no real symptoms boobs still sore and getting twinges in my back where my kidneys are on n off not painful or too noticeable, frequent weeing maybe an infection? But it doesn't smell or is cloudy / painful so god knows!

I don't have enough symptoms to get a Bfpxxx

 

[angel6901]

Hi ladies....

Emma all sounds so promising. Michelle fx u will get to put it up again next Xmas. Hope we all get bfps!

I'm 9/10dpo today , no real symptoms boobs still sore and getting twinges in my back where my kidneys are on n off not painful or too noticeable, frequent weeing maybe an infection? But it doesn't smell or is cloudy / painful so god knows!

I don't have enough symptoms to get a Bfpxxx

Jess those are all very promising symptoms, one of my first symptoms was weeing a lot, and I didn't have much else apart from sore boobs, so honestly you could be pregnant...why are you thinking your not?

 

[Jess07]

I don't know I think I am just nervous coz been trying for a while, feb really but properly timing since June.

But update ----- just went to the toilet and definite pink cm. really light pink not like last time, no cramps. So frick knows!!!!!!!

I do dislike bodies sometimes, we should have a light after u have sex red - no baby ,
Green baby done! Ha

 

[angel6901]

I don't know I think I am just nervous coz been trying for a while, feb really but properly timing since June.

But update ----- just went to the toilet and definite pink cm. really light pink not like last time, no cramps. So frick knows!!!!!!!

I do dislike bodies sometimes, we should have a light after u have sex red - no baby ,
Green baby done! Ha

Haha we should! least we would know then

Oh wow! 9 dpo is the most common day for implantation bleeding
when I got my Brown CM yesterday I didn't get any cramps but this afternoon I'm getting twinges...oh FX for you hun xxx

 

[Balthazar1275]

Really hope it is implantation spotting for you Jess.

Michelle x

 

[Jess07]

It was just the once I saw it and so so light it was barely
Pink but def tinge there sooooo we will see. Not going to get my hopes up.

When's the earliest I can test now? I was going to weds but now this not sure if best to wait? X

 

[Jess07]

Thank u Michelle , last month I had lots and it really was dark brown and had to put a liner in for 2 days.

This is just a pick tinted bit once when wiped n if I wasn't checking n being so thorough ha I would even have noticed I'm sure.

It's so stressful isn't it, acupuncture in the morning tho x that should calm me x

 

[Balthazar1275]

Hcg levels double every 48hrs so if it is implantation spotting you could test Wednesday/Thursday. Sending you lots of luck huni x

Michelle x

 

[angel6901]

I think Wednesday or Thursday too, so exciting, are you feeling a bit more positive hun? I'm trying to be but don't want to get my hopes up ...again.... fx for you xxx

 

[Jess07]

Thank u ladies , Wednesday it is then, then if BFN I'll wait till AF due fri/sat.

Not holding my breath, I might ask acupuncture lady tomoz if she can tell somehow haha xx

 

[Mumzilla]

Very exciting news Jess.

I also had back pains where my kidneys are, which I don't think I ever had before, and thought it was a bit odd. But I have never heard that being a pregnancy symptom so I will dismiss it.

Other than that all my symptoms are identical to last month, and sadly I have a strong feeling that I'm not pregnant.

I don't feel to down about it, but my next OV is predicted for Xmas day, and I just really don't want to be due in September (when statistically maternity wards are packed due to previous Xmas)... I enjoyed being able to give birth in a midwife led unit and spend time in the birthing pool, which I might not be able to do when the ward is its busiest. I know I'm asking too much... but it's a consideration for me. Adding to that, I already have a Xmas baby so not particularly looking for another one. lol Only if we could pick & choose birth dates

P.S. Of course I will take whatever comes as long as it's a sticky bean. xx