NavyLouise
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Hi all, Enid was born Friday morning at home and as much as I love that I feel it meant I've had no help at all. 2 midwives showed up after I gave birth and left about 3 hours later, one had me try to feed but didn't really show how and said it looked like she'd had a feed but I couldn't see how as I didn't feel anything iykwim?
I Never got to sleep that day at all and she was sleepy all day and not interested in feeding. Managed to get her on the breast after lots of head wiggling frustration that evening and she had a good long sleep after.
The next morning was awful though I could tell she was hungry but just couldn't get her to latch, oh was asleep in bed and I spent 3 hours crying my eyes out not knowing what to do. Eventually she took some and then again around mid day.
More struggle to latch later that eve and she fed for about 40 mins but then she spent the whole night waking up smacking her lips as though she was hungry, but whenever I tried feeding she either wouldn't latch properly or would fall asleep after one sip (so I wouldn't know if she was just using me as a pacifier or wasn't latched right so giving up?)..then repeat the whole process.
I just feel like I've no idea what to do, I hate the idea that she might be hungry and I can't do anything about it but keep trying and getting frustrated. My oh has generally been great with her so far but he doesn't understand what I mean or why I'm upset.
I feel like a failure already somehow and keep wondering if I should just give her formula, would that keep her happy or is this normal?!??
I Never got to sleep that day at all and she was sleepy all day and not interested in feeding. Managed to get her on the breast after lots of head wiggling frustration that evening and she had a good long sleep after.
The next morning was awful though I could tell she was hungry but just couldn't get her to latch, oh was asleep in bed and I spent 3 hours crying my eyes out not knowing what to do. Eventually she took some and then again around mid day.
More struggle to latch later that eve and she fed for about 40 mins but then she spent the whole night waking up smacking her lips as though she was hungry, but whenever I tried feeding she either wouldn't latch properly or would fall asleep after one sip (so I wouldn't know if she was just using me as a pacifier or wasn't latched right so giving up?)..then repeat the whole process.
I just feel like I've no idea what to do, I hate the idea that she might be hungry and I can't do anything about it but keep trying and getting frustrated. My oh has generally been great with her so far but he doesn't understand what I mean or why I'm upset.
I feel like a failure already somehow and keep wondering if I should just give her formula, would that keep her happy or is this normal?!??
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