MagicMarkers
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Ok so ive had a massive arguement (well got had a go at ) i realise iv wrote a few really downer rants on here in the last couple of days but if i could just do this last one so i feel like iv got it off my chest id really appreciate it !
So, staying with other half and his parents because im more or less homeless, and OHs brought our dog round, been here 2 days and his FIL said yesterday that all Staffies are dangerous vicious dogs not to be trusted. SO a man came round to give a quote for some carpet today, and he said iv got a staff, FIL said aww, i must have had a funny look on my face, cus carpet man said what, i looked at FIL and he said aw whats she like, so i said you dont like staffies do ya , n he said what you on about, and kept on and on trying ot make me look like i was lying so i said
* You said staffs are a dangerous brred who cant be trusted, you said they were vicious* and he just laughed it off.
I know that was a bit, i dno i feel a bit ungrateful after all they are having me stay here wen they dont have to, but i dno why hed lie about it, hes so two faced hell say loads of racist stuff, then when a black guy came round to deliver something hes calls him buddy and then slags him off wen hes left, he probably started cus i embarassed him thinking about it now, becus hes just brought it up.
Saying what did you say that to the carpet man for , when OH and evryones gone out and its just me n him in the kitchen, n i said i didnt think youd mind, you dont like them do you !?!
And then he kept saying they are dangerous breeds n all that and i said it hink its just the owners, you've had german shepards in the past and some people see those as dangerous dogs but im sure you'd agree you could trust them etc
Then he starts getting really nasty about it saying look your dogs a fucking killer, and i said look weve both got our diferent opinions lets just agree to disagree, but he kept on and on and on so i said look theres no point argueing about it because neither of us are going to back down, your never going to believe my dogs not vicious ( he says she looks at him funny ) and im never going to agree she is.
So i walk away, n start pottering in another room abit, n he follows me in and gets up close in my face and says what youve gotta understand love is iv got 50 years of life experience in this, and i said so youve been bitten by a staff ? and he said no listen to me, ( hes only ever been bitten by a terrier and in the past has kept german shepards and akitas ! ) 50 years experience, and i said youve only ever been bitten by a terrier so i dont know how you class that as experience that staffies are vicious.
SO he wanders out the room, comes back in and says * i wouldnt ever normally talk to anyone from a council estate so im not talking anymore to ya*, so i didnt know what to say then i mean originally im from a council house yes, but now im homeless so surely that would have been a bugger insult, as it is the only person hes met on my side of the family is my lovely grandma, so hes really saying she and me are scum ?
The facts about this man you probably should know are:
a few days ago me and MIL were talking about baby and he said well he ( my OH ) isnt mine so i aint going to be a grandad.
His hobby is collecting nazi memorabelia and parading round the house in a full replica uniform, not because of any historic re-enactment or anything, just becasue he thinks they had the right idea about everything.
Hes an absolute racist, bigamist everything, but soo two faced, he'd never say anything to a person but uses absolutely foul language regarding women, gay people, black people anyone you possibley COULD have a grudge against ( weve come to blows over this in the past )
When hes had an arguement ( hes either arguing with MIL, or OH's brother or OH most days iv been here ) he disappears and comes back completely wrecked talking about survellance on the house and gets really paranoid and agressive.
If it wasnt for the fact i have nowehre else to go, although MIL is LOVELY, i wouldnt be here, iv been to the council again this week who now say im just waiting for a call to say theyve found me somewhere, at the minute its either this or a dodgy b and b, the homeless officer actually said to me * where we stick all the junkies and crackheads * and said he wouldnt be comfortable putting me there, i said well surely youve got somewhere safe for me to go somewhere, he said if you can just make do for the time being wherever you can you'd be better off, come back if you get really desperate, but with the b n b if you leave, you wont be eligible for housing.
Or my friends who lives about 10 miles from northampton, where i need to be tomorrow for midwife cus iv gotta have my anti-d and get a letter of NFA at 9 and 11 , itd take loads of money and time to get there and back id basically have to leave now !
Told you it was long, if your this far well done, i barely am.
So my question is what do i do ? this was only ever temporary but now i dont know what im supposed to do ? OH's mum says fuck him and stay, ( there seperated but live together here because he wont leave ) but im debating whether that skanky b n b could be much worse than feeling like i cant go to the loo at night or downstairs for a drink incase he starts again !
So, staying with other half and his parents because im more or less homeless, and OHs brought our dog round, been here 2 days and his FIL said yesterday that all Staffies are dangerous vicious dogs not to be trusted. SO a man came round to give a quote for some carpet today, and he said iv got a staff, FIL said aww, i must have had a funny look on my face, cus carpet man said what, i looked at FIL and he said aw whats she like, so i said you dont like staffies do ya , n he said what you on about, and kept on and on trying ot make me look like i was lying so i said
* You said staffs are a dangerous brred who cant be trusted, you said they were vicious* and he just laughed it off.
I know that was a bit, i dno i feel a bit ungrateful after all they are having me stay here wen they dont have to, but i dno why hed lie about it, hes so two faced hell say loads of racist stuff, then when a black guy came round to deliver something hes calls him buddy and then slags him off wen hes left, he probably started cus i embarassed him thinking about it now, becus hes just brought it up.
Saying what did you say that to the carpet man for , when OH and evryones gone out and its just me n him in the kitchen, n i said i didnt think youd mind, you dont like them do you !?!
And then he kept saying they are dangerous breeds n all that and i said it hink its just the owners, you've had german shepards in the past and some people see those as dangerous dogs but im sure you'd agree you could trust them etc
Then he starts getting really nasty about it saying look your dogs a fucking killer, and i said look weve both got our diferent opinions lets just agree to disagree, but he kept on and on and on so i said look theres no point argueing about it because neither of us are going to back down, your never going to believe my dogs not vicious ( he says she looks at him funny ) and im never going to agree she is.
So i walk away, n start pottering in another room abit, n he follows me in and gets up close in my face and says what youve gotta understand love is iv got 50 years of life experience in this, and i said so youve been bitten by a staff ? and he said no listen to me, ( hes only ever been bitten by a terrier and in the past has kept german shepards and akitas ! ) 50 years experience, and i said youve only ever been bitten by a terrier so i dont know how you class that as experience that staffies are vicious.
SO he wanders out the room, comes back in and says * i wouldnt ever normally talk to anyone from a council estate so im not talking anymore to ya*, so i didnt know what to say then i mean originally im from a council house yes, but now im homeless so surely that would have been a bugger insult, as it is the only person hes met on my side of the family is my lovely grandma, so hes really saying she and me are scum ?
The facts about this man you probably should know are:
a few days ago me and MIL were talking about baby and he said well he ( my OH ) isnt mine so i aint going to be a grandad.
His hobby is collecting nazi memorabelia and parading round the house in a full replica uniform, not because of any historic re-enactment or anything, just becasue he thinks they had the right idea about everything.
Hes an absolute racist, bigamist everything, but soo two faced, he'd never say anything to a person but uses absolutely foul language regarding women, gay people, black people anyone you possibley COULD have a grudge against ( weve come to blows over this in the past )
When hes had an arguement ( hes either arguing with MIL, or OH's brother or OH most days iv been here ) he disappears and comes back completely wrecked talking about survellance on the house and gets really paranoid and agressive.
If it wasnt for the fact i have nowehre else to go, although MIL is LOVELY, i wouldnt be here, iv been to the council again this week who now say im just waiting for a call to say theyve found me somewhere, at the minute its either this or a dodgy b and b, the homeless officer actually said to me * where we stick all the junkies and crackheads * and said he wouldnt be comfortable putting me there, i said well surely youve got somewhere safe for me to go somewhere, he said if you can just make do for the time being wherever you can you'd be better off, come back if you get really desperate, but with the b n b if you leave, you wont be eligible for housing.
Or my friends who lives about 10 miles from northampton, where i need to be tomorrow for midwife cus iv gotta have my anti-d and get a letter of NFA at 9 and 11 , itd take loads of money and time to get there and back id basically have to leave now !
Told you it was long, if your this far well done, i barely am.
So my question is what do i do ? this was only ever temporary but now i dont know what im supposed to do ? OH's mum says fuck him and stay, ( there seperated but live together here because he wont leave ) but im debating whether that skanky b n b could be much worse than feeling like i cant go to the loo at night or downstairs for a drink incase he starts again !
Buy another 3 staffs and train them to crap in his bed.
