thought me and my husband we are close as you can get, but today he took a phone call and i asked what it was about, he said it was nothing and I knew he was lying so i asked him why is he lying and he kept on lying, then even said he cant tell me because he's buying me a present, i knew straight up that was a lie and eventually he said, listen i'm telling the truth now it was just to do with 3 (telephone) to do with the trouble with the contract.
I knew he was still lying and he went out to the shops, when he came back he admitted he had called a sex line 'just for a laugh' and it was to do with that
I feel sick that he's sneaked off calling sex lines while ive been asleep or feeding the baby or whatever , even if it was just the once (how can I believe that anyway?) and knowing that Id be upset , obviously he knew because he had to lie about it.
My sex drive is non existant right now which i think is due to the Implanon which I have made an appointment to take it out, he knows i want it out because i was threatening to cut it out myself. So its like an extra kick in the teeth he's gone off phoning sex lines.
I used to know full well i could go through his phone anytime and not have any surprises and he could go through mine just the same so i feel this is the start of the seeds of distrust being planted.
my last long term relationship, it was me who started calling chat lines out of boredom (internet chatting didnt exist back then ) chatting to strangers led to me feeling dissatisfied with my then-partner and before to long we split up.
maybe im overreacting and he really did just call it for a laugh, but to me its still the start of a divide , combined with the lies i feel really disappointed in him.
I knew he was still lying and he went out to the shops, when he came back he admitted he had called a sex line 'just for a laugh' and it was to do with that
I feel sick that he's sneaked off calling sex lines while ive been asleep or feeding the baby or whatever , even if it was just the once (how can I believe that anyway?) and knowing that Id be upset , obviously he knew because he had to lie about it.
My sex drive is non existant right now which i think is due to the Implanon which I have made an appointment to take it out, he knows i want it out because i was threatening to cut it out myself. So its like an extra kick in the teeth he's gone off phoning sex lines.
I used to know full well i could go through his phone anytime and not have any surprises and he could go through mine just the same so i feel this is the start of the seeds of distrust being planted.
my last long term relationship, it was me who started calling chat lines out of boredom (internet chatting didnt exist back then ) chatting to strangers led to me feeling dissatisfied with my then-partner and before to long we split up.
maybe im overreacting and he really did just call it for a laugh, but to me its still the start of a divide , combined with the lies i feel really disappointed in him.
Anything for a cheap thrill! Hope you sort this out. 
