Why do people think it's ok......

[Princess81]

To comment on your weight when you are pregnant?
I've just been told I must be having a girl as I'm getting wider as opposed to "sticking out".
As if I wanna hear that?!???!!!!!!
I am prone to gaining weight on my hips/bum/thighs - the last place I put on weight is on my waist.
I know people tell u when your bump is sprouting and I don't think I'd mind that too much, but I don't wanna hear that my arse is wider thanks!!

 

[Amy_J]

people are so opinionated its just rude!!!!! i got comments like "oooo you dont look very pregnant is everything ok is the baby growing ok!?" sooooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!! just ignore them!!! grrrr.

 

[Piglet10]

ahhhh shhhhhhhh lemme tell you j its worse when people dont even notice ur preg!! lol i think the first time a stranger noticed i was i was like 8 months haha!!!

im sure ur lovely!! and bubs is worth every lb huni!!

sorry to derail but hows things with you princess?? xx

 

[LoopyLouize]

I know theres a rumour going round my work that they think I've had a boob job ... Idiots!

I havnt told them about being pregnant but my boobs are making an appearance as I'm usually so flat chested!

 

[AugustMum]

It only gets worse.

In fact, FOB still says I looked like a sumo when I was pregnant.

Slap them all I say or get a few quick remarks ready so if anyone says anything you've got a quick come back

I put weight on around my hips, bum and thighs and generally have a small waist and even when I was pregnant still kept a bit of an hour glass (as much as you can when pregnant!) so Im sure youre waist will stay lovely.

 

[Princess81]

ahhhh shhhhhhhh lemme tell you j its worse when people dont even notice ur preg!! lol i think the first time a stranger noticed i was i was like 8 months haha!!!

im sure ur lovely!! and bubs is worth every lb huni!!

sorry to derail but hows things with you princess?? xx

Apart from tiredness (and being told I'm fat) I'm fine lol.
Office based at work so not as exciting as usual
Heading to england next month as it's c's birthday so we are having a memorial for her, dreading it tbh.
O/h home every weekend so not stuck on my own. That's about it really, and you? X

 

[Piglet10]

awww same crap diff day here !!

im not surprised ur dreading it but i bet it wont be as bad as ur expecting, my friend lost her daughter 3 years ago and her first bday after it they got realllllllly depressed etc and went into hibernation, ever since they go out of their way to enjoy it, like looking at photos telling stories home movies that kinda stuff, she tells me it was farrrrr worse letting themselves be sad instead of remembering the good things xxxx

 

[munchkin1982]

aaawww hunni. and "wider" for a girl??? Cheeky sods. Did you see my bump pics? I was HUGE and all bump. People annoy me when they go on about things like that. Prepare for the nagging of baby names soon though xx

 

[Princess81]

Well her tree is is that forest park as u know, so we are making a family day of it and taking a picnic and trying to celebrate her life rather than have it be a day of mourning. X

 

[Piglet10]

thatll be lovely hun!! i think it sounds perfect not too stressful either hope it goes ok, as im sure itll be hard no matter what! so on the note of baby names u thot of any?!!? haha xxx

 

[Princess81]

aaawww hunni. and "wider" for a girl??? Cheeky sods. Did you see my bump pics? I was HUGE and all bump. People annoy me when they go on about things like that. Prepare for the nagging of baby names soon though xx

As far as names are concerned I have planned my response: "we aren't telling our name choices to anyone because people always give their opinions and we don't want them" lol
All my friends that have has girls have been all bump I just know I always put weight on my bottom half not my waist, I'm just that sort of shape xx

 

[Princess81]

thatll be lovely hun!! i think it sounds perfect not too stressful either hope it goes ok, as im sure itll be hard no matter what! so on the note of baby names u thot of any?!!? haha xxx

Yeh a few, I put them on here a while back, no one in RL is being told mind u lol. I like Amelie for a girl and Cameron for a boy. Think the girls name could be non-sticky though. I also like Maisie and Melanie but keep changing xx

 

[Piglet10]

ooooh maisie was a fave of mine !!!! class top secret!!!! and defo next time ppl in RL wont be hearing the names either xxx

 

[HeppiBean]

Oh hun that got on my nerves too.... I had so many people saying "ooh you've got a big bump for your stage! must be a boy" or "you're carrying all your weight on the front, it'll be a little girl" I was so relieved when I found out I'm having a girl so they'd all shut up! People seem to think that being pregnant mean it's suddenly ok to comment on your growing size, I mean... Jeez!! It's still my body!! Sozz to but in just had to comment Good luck!! xx

 

[Princess81]

It just really peed me off (for want of a better word) I dont wanna know if I've got a fat bum, I can't see it so as fat as I'm concerned it's not there seriously tho now I'm worrying about what I eat in case I gain excess weight by eating for two x

 

[FebMum2Be]

Jayne, 2 things, nod and ignore, this really pissed me off too, maybe you should say the same about them see how they like it your trousers look a bit tight have you gained a few lbs?? Sounds like a lovely idea for C's memorial, and glad you're keeping well xxx

 

[Bunnykins]

about 3 weeks ago my nosy interfering neighbour was outside lecturing me about my tree needing cutting back then she suddenly said out of nowhere 'ooh that's going to be a big baby isn't it, your huge, good luck pushing that out' Argh I could have slapped her, I was wearing a very baggy maxi dress so you couldn't even see my bump that well and she was there telling me I was huge!!!! Hubby was so mad when I told him that hes going to tell her to f'off next time he sees her (although she hides from him and only comes out when Im on my own! Such an old bitch)

 

[Princess81]

Even my o/h said to me the other day: "oh your at that stage between looking fat and looking pregnant" tosser! I asked him what his excuse was x

 

[DaisyPurple]

People are so judgemental these days and way too outspoken

Still... Bet none of you have been asked how long left? When you weren't even preggers? I have lol xx

 

[Princess81]

Oh dear daisy, I'd have to have slapped them for that one xx