why are men so nasty??

[abilouise]

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[Jayjay027]

First of all, men aren't nasty. That particular man is nasty. Very nasty!

U say ur sticking with him for the occasional bit of company, but if that's how he speaks to u, is his company really worth it?!

He has told u he won't stay with u if ur not pregnant, so why are u just waiting around for him to either stay with u out of pity, or leave u?! Don't u want better for ur child?

Don't allow him to make u feel like he's all u can get. Ur better off alone than with a bully like him, and u sticking around to be treated that way isn't doing any1 any favours. Ur child can see how ur spoken to and will think that's acceptable - because u put up with it.

Only u can make positive changes! Be strong x

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[Princess81]

God what an awful man!!! My o/h would never ever say that to me, if he did he'd be out in his ear!
You deserve so much better hun, you are worth more than that. I'm sorry you are goin through all of this, what an awful time xx

 

[LouiseB]

Don't put up with that, that's horrible

Next time he runs off to his parents, pack up his stuff and change the locks.

Sorry about your blighted ovum

 

[abilouise]

i am just terrified of being on my own, but really am fed up of getting constantly put down and made to feel like crap. its not fair

 

[Jayjay027]

You'll honestly be happier on ur own. He is doing nothing positive for u at all.

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[wifeywifey]

Leaving your oh will obviously be scary but you will soon be glad you did, he isnt supporting you, men arent often perfect but this is not normal and all men dont treat you like that. Hope your ok, ps there is lots of support on here for you x

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[Loula]

defo get rid, u dont deserve it x

 

[Hayley1608]

Firstly I hope you are ok. I can't begin to imagine how you feel.

Secondly, Tell that pathetic excuse of a man where to bloody go. You deserve better and so does your child.

I've never been so disgusted with a man that i've never even met.

We are all here to support you

 

[jclaire78]

your partner sounds like mine, I totally sympathize with you hun, hooe he can change for you...(((((hugs))))

 

[Kaylee2802]

Ino it's easier sed than done and it will be hard to do, but surely abit of upset to start with is better than a lifetime of unhappiness ??? U deserve so much better!! Don't give him the chance to hurt u any more. U might think ul be u happy if he goes but it sounds to me like u already are.. Hope all goes well , we are hear if you need us x

 

[Jayjay027]

your partner sounds like mine, I totally sympathize with you hun, hooe he can change for you...(((((hugs))))

I'm sorry but this is not helpful or constructive at all.
Are u suggesting she stays with him in the hopes that he will change and wish her life away in the meantime?!
She needs the confidence to know that she's better than that, and deserves better than that!

If ur partner is the same, u should do the same as what we're advising the OP to do!

I don't understand people who stick around with someone who treats them like shit!! What's so wrong with wanting to be happy?! This jeremy kyle generation really need to get a grip and see that being in a miserable relationship IS NOT better than building ur confidence by urself!!

 

[abilouise]

but its hard when you have a baby, if someone treated me like this before my baby i would of left. I also havent really got much of a family, so no support and not any proper friends due to moving. So i am completely alonex

 

[Kaylee2802]

I know exactly what you're saying and I do sympathize but if your always falling out is it a good environment for your child anyway, yes everyone dreams of a family with mum dad and children but if yor not happy then it isn't going to work. You can't stay with someone who treats u like crap and makes u feel like that just because you're scared of being alone . I know it will be hard to walk away but isn't it better to walk away and be alone and start to gain yor happiness back than stuck in a bad relationship x