Geordie&Bairn
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Before he left to go back to Reading he told me he had asked his Mum to babysit next week and she said yes
so were going to one of our fave resturants in near by town Sevenoaks were we used to live
Im sooooooooo happy
now i need to do some serious expressing to make enough for Collier while were out
i cant wait
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Ok so its our anniversey he bought me a card and wrote a a lovely message great i think i fogive him for the lack of present hes been very sweet to me today taking Collier out on long walk so i could do my salsa excerise
But he went round to his mates who is having a few problems ok im ine with this im hoping we will celabrate at the week end
so he gets home and i mention its upset me we havint done anything for out anniversery he asks me what id like to do
then pipes up with i know we can have the whole day out some where go some where we havnt been before or some where you would like to go how about down to the coast we could take sandwiches
so were not having a meal out im not getting dressed up sexy and Collier being looked after by grandmar
no im going down to the freezing cold beach may even be raining but hey it rained when we went to Cornwall so we'll stil have a god day to eat sandwiches then afterwards taking Collier to he sea life centre
im actually laughing at the moment at what ive just wrote its just redculous u was hoping he was kidding but hes just gone to bed thinking hes great for coming up with something for us to celabreate our 5 th year together
anyone want to come and help me knock is block off
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Its out 5th year together Anniversery next week
And James isnt going to do ANTHING for it he says we dont have the money for presents or to go out for a meal
Mind hes had enough to go on 2 motorbike hols to France and mot service his bike and ive never asked him to get rid of it to help towards our savings for a house as i know how much he loves his bike
But when i buy things of ebay for Collier such as the bubble tube, chair bouncer, and playmat i had to give him the money back as its his account i use
I know petrol rent taxs food ect is hammering him in Reading and i understand why as ive not got as many out goings living at his parents
But do you get my point Motorbike motorbike hols and he says we havnt got enough for a meal out and a present for our anniversery
JOOLS Husband please take my James and teach him how its done after your montage for her i was so jealous
Im really royaly peed off i really could do with a lift and to feel pampered spolit and have the chance to dress up and feel pretty for just one night
Its been the same every year i have to badger him to take me out for my Birthday
The first year we were together he bought me a present for my Bday and for xams he got me a lovely pressie but since then NADA NOTHING ZIP
same for Xmas and valentines
oh sorry one year he bought me a card blank envelope plain white card with the smallest red heart in the middle ( microscope needed) and inside NOTHING i said there is no writing he said "well you know who its from"
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
As i said previous years ive had to drag him out last year he had too as no present but hed got himself a new motorbike
Ok i m ranting about him and i feel bad as he shows me he loves me in so many other ways and i know just how lucky i am to have such a wonderful man as my partner hes a fab Dad and a great support for me with Collier hes shown himself to be a fantasic man and a partner to be proud of 8) But when it comes to this sort of stuff hes bloody useless
But do i have the right to be annoyed that for our 5th year together he isnt going to do anything for it
We cant just on the hop go into a walk in resturant like before we have a Son and we need someone to look after him and i thought was going to ask his Mum as we had disscussed but he hasnt
IM FED UP i want mark our 5th year as special and worth celebrating James dosnt rate it has worthy
I know we have money worries but he dosnt have to splash out to much the thought that counts present would make me happy but the thought is not to bother
i dont need or want expensive gifts but i do want to feel spoilt just once
Colliers has spent the last few weeks screaming in aoin with his teething and i need a night off just a few hours away
Im hopeing James will do something i really am as i think if he dosnt it will effect me more then it has before the way im feeling right now