Who can hold/kiss your newborn....

Tracey M

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I had my baby Adam on 5th September so he's only a mere 12 days old and we have been in hospital for 5 days and will be here for at least another 14 days.

I just really want all you new mums out there to be aware what has happened cos I never knew about this - would never cross my mind.

Basically Adam was losing weight every day and was sleeping too much and not really interested in feeding. When weight loss got to 10% mark midwife referred me to neo natal unit to get 24 hour help with feeding. It was obvious something was not right but not sure what. Overnight he started getting 5 red spots on his torso, over the next day they developed into blister like appearance. The consultants (all 5 of them)|thought Adam had a bacterial infection so he was on 3 different types of anti biotic. he started to vomit and had high temperature. It looked like this was working cos the next day his bloods vame back better, temp had gone down and seems to be improving BUT the treatment we thought was working wasn't.... His bloods came back up at 70+ for infection, he was sick again and generally not well. He then developed more spots with blisters on them and doctor was convinced it was HSV-1 or HSV-2 so started immediate treatment. We finally got the lab results back from Glasgow today and it is confirmed that Adam has HSV-1. He is therefore on the right treatment programme. The lumber puncture shows that he does not have the virus in the spinal fluid which is great news. Now they know what it is they now need to re-check the blood and see if the virus is in the blood and therefore at risk to organs etc. We really hope that it is only on the skin..... The treatment course takes a minimum of 14 days so we are both in hospital for the duration. I know I should not google but I did and the mortality rate is really high so I just pray that this has been caught, diagnosed and treated in time. The doc suggests that someone must have kissed my wee boy who has a cold sore and carrying the HSV-1 virus. I have no idea who but I really wish there was more awareness out there for new mums to know that this can happen to newborn babies. We all know how many people come to visit when you have a newborn baby and really this is the worst thing that can happen! This is a potentially fatal outcome surely I'm not the only new mum out there who had no idea?? I would wrap up your babies in cotton wool and dont feel bad about saying no to people holding and kissing your little bundles of joy.

Anyway - fingers crossed the bloods come back ok and my wee Adam makes a speedy recovery
 
I'd never thought about anything like this before! Really hope your LO gets better xxxxx
 
So sorry you've been through this, really hope he makes a speedy recovery. You just don't realise how vulnerable newborn babies are, it's scary. My thoughts are with you and your family xx
 
im so sorry to hear this :-(
I hope adam make a full, speedy recovery.
They really should make this HSV-1 more common knowledge xx
 
Hey Hun oh god I'm so sorry to hear you've been having such a bad time, thinking of you and sending massive hugs for a speedy recovery for your gorgeous bubba :) xxxx

Thank you also for the information, it's scary the things we don't know about xxx


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Oh gosh, that must be so frightening for you. Really hope your little one is going to be alright. Thankyou for taking the time to write this and please come back to let us know how everything is. Wishing lots of luck and love xxx
 
would never have thought about this either. defiently gonna be careful with who holds leandro when hes here. hope lil adam gets better soon. stay strong xx
 
So sorry this has happened to
Him thank you for telling us your story let us know how he gets on xxxx
 
Oh Tracey I'm so sorry your going through such a tough time when you should be home enjoying him, Adam sounds like a little fighter so all my fingers crossed and thoughts are with you that he got his treatment in time and makes a speedy recovery. Thanks for taking the time to share your story, I had no idea this could happen so I feel completely unprepared and will be far more cautious with my wee one now xxxxx
Please keep us updated on Adam's progress, will be sending positive thoughts your way x
 
This is so terrible for you.
Really sending you all my positive thoughts.
I can honestly say, I will remember this if I ever have another/see somebody elses newborn!
 
Oh tracey, how terrible for you. I'm going to be much more cautious now, thinking of you and plot little Adam.
Thank you for pointing this out, you are always
thinking of others, bless you xx
 
Oh Tracey, Sending lots of love your way.
Hope LO is better soon, :)
x
 
I'm really sorry for everything you are going through and i'm sure little Adam will pull through just fine in record time :hug:

It is shocking where they can catch illnesses from but remember that it won't be just who kissed baby directly... but anyone that kissed you, your hubby or your other son and then who might have kissed baby.

So, i don't think it could reasonable be 100% fool proofed against unless no one at all ever kissed the baby.

Plus i wonder if it could come from people touching their mouths and then touching baby with their hands?

I'm just saying all this to highlight that i don't think you did anything wrong. This isn't your fault for letting people kiss your baby xx
 
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Your in my thoughts and prayers fingers crossed for a speedy and full recovery. And thankyou so much for this advice x x
 
Oh my god I'm so sorry to hear this!! The start of your post was identical to my sister.. She had to be in hosp for a week with LO due to infection after dropping birth weight and not feeding.. Luckily it cleared ok and he's fine now but we still don't know what caused it.. She's been going on bout no kisses etc which I thought was odd considering they let their lizard run free in the house.. He looks after horses and they have a dog that's allowed everywhere in the house.. Poor kids were covered in dog hair even at the hospital after birth!

I pray your LO makes a speedy recovery.. They should make more mum aware of risks with newborns!!
 
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thoughts with you petal...hope he makes a speedy recovery xxx
 
What a nightmare for you and little Adam, hope he recovers soon.
It's a nasty virus if they don't have immunity for it.
I will be thinking of you, keep us posted
 
oh dear :( so hope you little one gets better soon!

thanks for sharing this - it definitely made me think about how many people I'm going to invite around..
 
Plus i wonder if it could come from people touching their mouths and then touching baby with their hands


You are absolutely right Louise - it can be transmitted from hands too....
 
Oh poor little Adam I feel for you & him...I had 2 lumber punctures last yr due to viral meningitis it was so painful they reckon it's 1 of the most painful things to experience poor little bubba having to have that done just a good job he won't remember it! Lots of love & hugs to u guys xxx
 

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