i know your prob all sick of hearing my problems by now, but this is the only place i feel i can let them out.
I feel so crap lately, i dont feel like im good enough to be Jases wife or Cobys mum.
Coby is very clingy and if im out of his sight for more than a few seconds he crys, he either has to be on my hip on be able to see me at all time and its so draining, its getting to the point where i look forward to him going to bed just so i can have time out.
he is such a good baby, dont get me wrong, hes full of smiles and laughs alot, i just seem to be the focas of all his attention and its hard work.
I didnt want him to be like this, i tryied so hard not to pick him up when he wanted but it seems hes has got his own way in teh end.
also, i saw my ex best mate today, she is now engaged to my ex boyfriend and is very happy, she said hi to me and i really had to stop myself from crying in front of her, i said congrats and smiled.
i miss her so much, i cant belive i walked away from her, im so stupid.
another thing is im so up and down, one min im doing great, i dont need her, im happy, trying for another baby etc and the next im doubting if i want another baby, feeling bad for jase coz we have got in to debt since he met me, wnting my mate back and just genraly feeling a failuar.
im just so tired right now, not from lack of sleep, coby sleeps 11 hours a night, just tired of my life i guess, even tho i love the poeple in it,
see?! i dont make sense, this is going on in my head all day everyday, one min im fine, teh next im not, the next im trying to justify things, the next im fighting.
i wish i knew what it is that i want or need to make me happy again
I feel so crap lately, i dont feel like im good enough to be Jases wife or Cobys mum.
Coby is very clingy and if im out of his sight for more than a few seconds he crys, he either has to be on my hip on be able to see me at all time and its so draining, its getting to the point where i look forward to him going to bed just so i can have time out.
he is such a good baby, dont get me wrong, hes full of smiles and laughs alot, i just seem to be the focas of all his attention and its hard work.
I didnt want him to be like this, i tryied so hard not to pick him up when he wanted but it seems hes has got his own way in teh end.
also, i saw my ex best mate today, she is now engaged to my ex boyfriend and is very happy, she said hi to me and i really had to stop myself from crying in front of her, i said congrats and smiled.
i miss her so much, i cant belive i walked away from her, im so stupid.
another thing is im so up and down, one min im doing great, i dont need her, im happy, trying for another baby etc and the next im doubting if i want another baby, feeling bad for jase coz we have got in to debt since he met me, wnting my mate back and just genraly feeling a failuar.
im just so tired right now, not from lack of sleep, coby sleeps 11 hours a night, just tired of my life i guess, even tho i love the poeple in it,
see?! i dont make sense, this is going on in my head all day everyday, one min im fine, teh next im not, the next im trying to justify things, the next im fighting.
i wish i knew what it is that i want or need to make me happy again