What happens if theres no reason for recurrent MCs?

If i have every test and it all comes back that theres nothing wrong with me, what will happen from there?


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They've only gave me the auto immune ones atm. Been waiting 2 months for a referal from gyne to specialist :/

First mc was 8W
Second was 6/7 w
Third was 5W
Forth and fifth was chems 4/4 & half.
Recent one was twins one twin never grew was just a yolk in sac i think, other one got to 8+1, had a HB but stopped growing at 5+6. Which is the same as what happened with my first... HB till 7 weeks but didnt grow from 5+6/7, im not sure how long the last one had a HB for, was fine at my 6 week scan.

I will be getting NK cells tested, ive been told about someone in Coventry, so will probably go there.

What do they do at the first appointment, with the specialist people? My gyne is awful, first he said when you do get pregnant with finger quotes (I dont know how being pregnant has finger quotes, because your classed as preg as soon you get a bfp so fuck him!) Then he wasnt even going to refer me to the specialist!!! but the consultant told him to because at that point i had, had 5 MCs.... then said all i need to do is keep trying and eventually one will stick .... and to top it all off, ive been waiting for 2 months for my referral letter with my appointment on, and they hadnt even done it!!!! Called last thursday lady at Bham hospital said they havent had anything about me, called the gyne they said yeah well you need to see GP and they need to refer you but at my last gyne appointment i asked if i would get it trough the post (which i do everytime theres another appointment) and he said yes, so i went to my gp, she said oh i should have had a letter sent out to me asking if i still wanted to go there (why the hell wouldnt i??) she said shes sorry and shell send it off asap.She said she dont know why my gyne didnt tell me i needed to see my gp about it!! FFS, theyre just fking me about too much. People have told me to write to newspapers and stuff with how badly the nhs have treated me...
With my lastest pregnancy, i was told I need a scan at 6 weeks, but my gps wouldnt send me for one, saw the midwife she said its up to the hospital to choose when they scan you, the hosp decidedo just treat me like a normal person and have a scan at 12 weeks, gp wouldnt send me for progesterone or hcg tests, i was told if i find the pregnancy isnt viable i need to have a D&C so they can send all tissue to lab for testing, waited 6 hours to be told they would give me a D&C in a few days, but the lab wont test the tissue!! I passed everything after i got home, took the sac to the early pregnancy unit and they sent it to the lab (why the fk couldn't the surgical team do that?!) Everyone just keeps fking us about.

Sorry long rant... Just feeling fed up with it now.

 

My gp said she'd write a note to specialist asking for it to be rushed as I've waited with months already. Phoned bham women's hospital, they said they had it but the women who deals with it is away... so there's only one person who deals with all referrals in the west midlands?? She said I should here within 10 working days, so if i hear nothing by Friday will call them again. Xx

 

The docs keep saying it's nothing to do with my hubby as his part is done once I'm pregnant... I mean I'm
Not a doctor or have much knowledge of infertility but I know that he needs to be tested to ffs.
I watched a documentary last night in infertility and was really deflated, basically nk cells doesn't attack a fetus and having Pgs is just a way to make money and it doesn't improve chances of conceiving or carrying to full term blah xx

 

Were taking all the vitamins, ive also put hubby on a higher folic acid aswell now heh.
You know i said that they need to check my thyroid and they sill haven't, my dad and some cousins (on my dads side) have thyroid problems, my mom and her sister both have diabetes still not checked me for that either...
Eveerytime i have a private scan they say it looks like i have pcos but NHS say no it doesnt and wont give me a blood test hmm.
Hoping the specialist will just do all tests without me needing a reason, still no letter today x

 

Nope had nothing... I went to my gp as soon as i got a positive test, asked for progesterone and HCG tests she said no theres no point. I paid privately to have them done, then the private place gave me a prescription for progesterone which i started at 6 weeks.

The FSH sounds familiar, but it wasnt done on a certain day of my cycle if its what im thinking about... and it was done with the auto immune test, thats the only ones ive had done... I did bring up testing at certain days to my gyne he said i dont need that and only people who struggle to get pregnant need those :/
I have IBS which ive also told them repeatedly but 'thats ok' apparently.
xx

 

Got a positive pregnancy test today, straight after a mc, think will be a chemical though. Argh give up. Xx

 

To too faint for 11dpo. I know some people don't get faints until after period etc, but I've always had a decent line by now part, even when I had my other 2 chems I had better lines than this lol. I had implantation bleeding at 6dpo, so not holding out any hope xx