Im ttc atm and I think about this A LOT
I'm married (registry office doo - the marriage means more to me than the extravagance and cost of a wedding)
I have a bought house (its a 20 or 25yr mortgage no chance am I waiting til that's paid lol) I would like a bigger house but ive a 3 bedroom with good enough sized back garden so don't NEED to move. Currently in the middle of decorating to how we would like
We have a car each. Neither of which have any faults etc and arent that old
We have a 25 yr membership to go away on luxury all inclusive holidays each year
Hubby has a good job hes been there 7 years
I have a chemical engineering degree which I don't use
My current job pays enough but I hate it and cant face going back which causes me immense stress
But I don't want to wait until I'm somewhere new for a year just to get maternity pay
Plus you cant say how long it'd take to find another job. If ill like it. If I'll pass probation.
You cant put a time on ttc. Could be first cycle. Could be 2 years
We will just see what comes first
Hopefully baby. A job can come whenever...!
The only other thing I REALLY want first is to lose weight
I started this year about 5-6 stone over weight
I've managed to lose just over 2
Ideally id be able to lose another couple of stone first but it does worry me that vigorous exercise would shake bean loose if I didnt find out straight away lol
So a good enjoyable permanent job would be ideal
Losing weight preferable x