What did I do wrong?

[leean10]

Hi

I am just out of hospital after my mc starting last Tuesday. I went in on Friday as I had lots of pain and bleeding, nothing happened that night though so I had to stay in. Thought it was going to happen on Saturday and into the night and again it stalled and the bleeding stopped. Sunday, I had to have surgery because I was in a lot of pain and was on morphine but I had no bleeding.

They evacuated an early pregnancy mc and this is now no.4!!! What can I be doing wrong?

I am taking all the vitamins, don't smoke, drink, eat healthily etc? Why me???


Lee-Ann xx

 

[CARNAT22]

Sweetie,

It isn't your fault and it is not down to anything you do or don't do!

You need to get your tests arranged to find out if there is a reason and if there is the Dr's will be abel to help you.

I know how frustrating and sad it is hun and I hope you find some answers soon

xxxxxxxxxx

 

[leean10]

I have my hospital appointment booked for next month at St Mary's in London so hopefully they will be able to find out why I am broken.

I just want my own baby so badly that it is killing me atm, I want to be pregnant again now but I should be responsible and try not to get pregnant for a while until I get my results and the doctor can get me on the correct medication etc.

Thanks for your nice words and I am sorry to keep harping on but it really is killing me inside and I am starting to give up and lose all hope x

 

[netty]

its not your fault sweety, i did it all right even stopped smoking after being a smoker for 10+ years!

these things just happen its shit i know and i know you want an answer but sweety there isnt one

 

[Lillyprincess]

Really sorry you are feeling like this. I'm going through my first one so I can't even imagine how bad you must feel.

I hope you get some answers xx

 

[Rednursie]

I know how easy it can be to blame yourself after a loss but please please believe you are not at fault. You are doing absolutely nothing wrong Hun. You are doing all of the right things to keep yourself healthy. I know you probably find this hard to believe but
please don't beat yourself up. I'm so sorry for all of your losses. I cant imagine what it must be like to suffer so many. Stay strong Hun. Wishing you the very best of luck with your investigations xxx

 

[Spinneygirl]

So sorry for your loss, please dont blame yourself xxx