Hey,
many of you may know the saga of my OH who did a runner afer me announcing I was PG - even tho he said he wanted it as much as me. Well eventually, after me writing a letter to his mother, he got in touch and said he wanted to work things out. He wanted me to sell my house and move in with him and wear my engagement ring again - niether of which I want to do!
But anyway, he text me last night saying that he had always loved me and always will and that he doesn't want to be mean to me but he can't help it sometimes, but will try to be a better person.
THEN.... he said " But can I ask you a favour, I want you to lose a few pounds if we are going to stay together as I don't want you ending up like your sister!"
My sister has real food issues and weight about 20 stone.
I weigh 12 and half stone (no light weight I know) but I wear size 12 skirts, 14 jeans. I am only going to put weight on over the next few months, I feel awful. I know I'm overweight, but In the last year I lost 2 stone so I was quite pleased with myself. Now I feel fat and unattractive and I can only see it getting worse. I've been on my step machine all morning, which combined with my constant throwing up morning sickness probably isn't a good idea.
I asked him - What's gonna happen now then over the next few months? And all he said was "you tell me!" then turned his phone off. I havn't heard from him since that.
What should i do?
Piglet xx
many of you may know the saga of my OH who did a runner afer me announcing I was PG - even tho he said he wanted it as much as me. Well eventually, after me writing a letter to his mother, he got in touch and said he wanted to work things out. He wanted me to sell my house and move in with him and wear my engagement ring again - niether of which I want to do!
But anyway, he text me last night saying that he had always loved me and always will and that he doesn't want to be mean to me but he can't help it sometimes, but will try to be a better person.
THEN.... he said " But can I ask you a favour, I want you to lose a few pounds if we are going to stay together as I don't want you ending up like your sister!"
My sister has real food issues and weight about 20 stone.
I weigh 12 and half stone (no light weight I know) but I wear size 12 skirts, 14 jeans. I am only going to put weight on over the next few months, I feel awful. I know I'm overweight, but In the last year I lost 2 stone so I was quite pleased with myself. Now I feel fat and unattractive and I can only see it getting worse. I've been on my step machine all morning, which combined with my constant throwing up morning sickness probably isn't a good idea.
I asked him - What's gonna happen now then over the next few months? And all he said was "you tell me!" then turned his phone off. I havn't heard from him since that.
What should i do?
Piglet xx