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OMG it just went on for 2 hours. And the last hour was full throtle screaming of a baby who is being tortured or at the very least starved. Thing is I know its colic.

I tried everything, he has infacol before each feed, I gave him an extra dose after 15 mins screaming, I tried every burping technique in the book and got 2 out of him. But the screaming continued, I gave him a tummy massage and he did a poo, then I changed his nappy but he still screamed and screamed. :wall2:

I ran a bath and as we sat in the bathroom with the johnsons bedtime calming stuff filling the air he stopped for about a minute, I dunno if it was the sound of the running water or the smell but that minute was heaven, unfortunately like the eye of the storm! I put him down to undress him and myself and it started up again, he calmed in the bath but still was breathing fairly rapidly, I did it quite deep and got in with him so his whole body was floating underwater and I was just holding the back of his head and his bum. He started kicking and thrashing around so I thought Id better get out as I didnt want to slip and let his head go under.

Then he screamed bloody murder as I dried and dressed him, so I swaddled him really tight and put him in his pram in the kitchen and closed the door for about 30 secs while I took 10 deep breaths and listened to him screaming. I thought Id just make him a bottle even though I knew he'd be over feeding and would just be sick, I was getting desparate, then I realised that Ive been so tired today I forgot to clean and sterilise the bottles and I had used the last one at the 2.30 feed. :shock: At that point I had to make a very conscious decision not to fall apart! I frantically glanced around the room and started gathering bottles to sterilise and spotted the dummy, I hadnt tried it for a week and had kinda written it off but I shoved it in his screaming little mouth and he merrily suckled on it and went to sleep. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


My baby is now tightly swaddled in his pram by the open patio door in the kitchen sleeping with a dummy in his mouth. How very 1950s of me! :oooo:

I now have 6 clean bottles and just aswell cos ive looked at the clock and its officialy 3 hours since his last feed and standard kick off time. Im hoping he's worn himself out though!
 
he will be sleeping for a little while now bless him!
aww Tiny i think you sound like an exelent mum and i hope i will have that energy without just giving up and bursting out in tears!
well done you!
 
Wowwwwww. And a majority have all this to come. Ahhh!! Brave lady!! I don't know what I'd do in that sort of situation lol! Hide! X
 
i hope i will have that energy without just giving up and bursting out in tears!!

I did that too :oooo: I put him in his crib in his room and sat on my bed having a small breakdown at one point! but then after I gave up he was still screaming and I felt guilty for just leaving him, he sounded so upset!

I have no idea where the energy came from, Im still in shock I think! OH is due home any minute and I think Im gonna sob on his shoulder, either that or scream at him if he dares touch the LO!
 
Wowwwwww. And a majority have all this to come. Ahhh!! Brave lady!! I don't know what I'd do in that sort of situation lol! Hide! X

sorry dont mean to scare you!!!! Im soooo glad I bought a dummy just incase! Definately put that on your baby list, but only one, you might not need it, but if you realise you do, you wont have the time to take him to the shop to buy one in that state!
 
or just say " he is all yours", put ya feet up and spend the night on PF XX
 
Lol isobel indeed!! Ok I'll grab a dummy then, no not scared me it's jus going to be tough times! X
 
:rofl: poor guy is exhausted from the nights when hes like this and has to leave the house at 7.30 for work. I think we're all gonna spend the day in our PJs tomorrow!
 
Poor you - its awful when you cant do anything to make it better. Zachary was the same, and it seems to be getting a bit better now, just hold on to the fact that he will grow out of it and you are doing everything right. Hope he is better for you tonight xxx
 
:lol: I just realised our new neighbours have been moving in and my windows are open!!!
 
:rofl: they are prob thinking "oh god wha have we moved here for :rofl: I'm sure they won't even notice. Ha. Xxx
 
I forgot to say, have you tried the anti colic + tommee tippee bottles (with the vent and the heat sensitive tube)? I think they really help x
 
Oh dear, I don't miss those days :) it sounds like you did really well hun. It gets so frustrating and draining at times that to collapse into a heap would be so easy lol. Your a star xx
 
Have you tried dentinox? I use it when liv has these moments and it works wonders! x
 
whats dentinox?

we are using the anti colic bottles but not the 'plus' ones, ill look into that :)
 
It's a colic medicine thing and works wonders liv never got in with infacol but dentinox works great. And nuk bottles are amazing xx
 
tiny, i totally know how u feel.i didnt realise it was colic and kept thinking that finley was still hungry so i kept feeding him which made the situation worse. but the midwife then told me it was colic. i was kinda relieved that there was something wrong with him and he wasnt just screaming for no reason.
the things the midwife told me 2 do was change his bottles to dr browns, give him infacol b4 every feed(takes at least 2-3 days 2 kick on apprantely) and whilst kinda him rock his bold from side to side, with his back completely straight.
must admit he has been alot better this last week. although i 4got 2 give him the infacol yesterday for 2 feeds (i feel so guility) and i felt like i had started all over again. last night was a night mare.
there is other things that can help like changing his milk to cow and gate comfort. think its changed its name 2 cow and gate for colic and consiptaion. and theres somthing called colief which is ment 2 be really good as well.
if u want a chat just pm me. i know how much hard work it is. xx
 
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Tiny, I haven't been on here for ages since Farrah arrived, but reading your thread made me smile because you have written down just how I felt with my first and I have to say that you have done really well as I did fall apart with him!! I thought we had gotten away with the colicky baby with Farrah, but she screamed blue murder for 3 hours last night and it all came flooding back like a nightmare!! Have you tried all fashioned 'gripe water'? We tried everything with our first, from warm water through to massage and infacol really didn't seem to work, but gripe water helped. well done for coping so well.x
 
Oh I rember those days well where we are both sat in the bath crying :wall:

infacol DID NOT work for us we used dentinox and the stuff is amazing
 

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