Very new relationship

[Ashbee]

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[Rachel80]

No one can answer this but you, your relationship is no more likely to fail or succeed than anyone else's! I moved in with my fiancé after 3 months of being together & after 20 months together started trying for a baby, which for a lot of people is quick. We've been together less than 3 years, have a house, a baby & are planning our wedding. I have other friends that were together 10 years, married & then split up. If it's right it's right. Yeah you'll probably learn things about each other along the way & now you're having a baby you can't go back - but who says you'll want to? Just enjoy it & don't over analyse! x

 

[Mum2betash]

I think it sounds wonderful!! If you both want this to work than why not? I assume you love each other? I hope everything works out as you would like and plan to xx

 

[millielaura]

If your in love then the time you've been together is irrelevent . OH and I moved in together after 5 months and we are currently trying for a baby after being together just short of a year. If you are both happy and want something then why wait! . I know many people who have been together for years before getting married having children etc and ended up divorced. my mum and dad got married and pregnant with me just over a year after first meeting and they are still together 22 years later whereas a lot of people who waited arn't! its less to do with time youve been together and more about how well you work together . also some couples have been together longer but dont know each other as well as couples who are closer but known each other for a lesser period if that makes sense? for example I know people who have been with their oh four years plus who have spent less time actually together than me and my oh and we are a lot closer to. I think its great when you can meet someone who your instantly close to . sounds like your oh is here to stay for you! wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xxxx

 

[Jo91]

I fell pregnant 2 months after I started a relationship with my partner (when I say partner we now have an on and off relationship). I had known him for about 10 years before as we met when we both started secondary school. As for leaving a partner, my Dad left my Mum 15 years after being together.

 

[mel0013]

what they all said its about u 2 as a couple not how long uve been together.

i started living with my OH after 3 weeks of being together (his mum passed away after we'de been together 2 weeks and i just stopped going home!!). we'll have been together 3 yrs in april our first baby is due end of march and we work really well together despite a 20yr age gap (im 27 hes soon to be 47).

 

[redbear]

I have a friend who is 45ish, she fell pregnant the first time her and her (now hubby) dtd, they have been married years now, there daughter is 14 and there youngest is 5. There happy! So it can work out, it will be hard babies are stressful but if your both determined and committed there is no reason that you cant have the happy ever after x

 

[Mummybexee]

I have a 5 year old sister - I'm 25 - my dad met his partner and within 6 weeks she was pregnant - in fact the first time I met her he announced her pregnancy. 5 years later they are still together

You say you won't have for your child what happened to your mum - that's out of your control unfortunately and sometimes being apart is better for a relashionship and child then being together

I think you'll be just fine - hubby and I moved in together after 1 month - had a miscarriage after a year together - however 5 years on we are married and awaiting our first to arrive!

 

[xlindseywells]

My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now and our baby is due in April. Surprisingly, our baby was planned. We just moved in together last Sunday and everything is going smoothly. We know it'll be stressful at times for us, but if we're both determined and committed I know we'll be fine.

 

[Rebecca89]

me and my oh decided to try for a baby after 4 months, moved in together around the same time! took another 6 to actually get pregnant though. our little boy is 4 months old now and we will have been together for 2 years in april, sometimes you just know that its right we are engaged and planning to get married asap xxx

 

[chickadee1990]

Me and my partner officially got together on xmas eve after only speaking on an online dating site for three weeks. We then starting seeing each other every day after that, I have pratically moved in with him now. On the 1st of march I should have come on but nothing arrived, 5 days later took a test, and got my first BFP, so we had only been together two months, and now I'm 6 + 3 now and we couldnt be happier, if it was our choice we wouldnt of had it so soon, but it is happeneing and the shock has sort of settled in, we aare very excited, I love my BF to pieces and wouldnt change our relationship or our little bump for the world xxx

 

[Anna86]

I've only been with my OH since jan and im 10 weeks pregnant and we live together I cudnt be any more happier he is my 1 I just no it and hes been amazing so far with everything dont doubt yourself if your happy no point worrying about anything else

 

[Mum2Many]

Everyone said my DH and I moved too quickly. We were friends, then started dating, then less than a month later were engaged, then a month or two after that we moved in together and from the time we met as friend to the time we got married (and pregnant) was all under a year. Everyone said it wouldn't work, but here we are nearly 14 years later with baby #8 on the way and happier than we've ever been.

I think you know when it's good. And if it's good, why bother waiting around just to prove to everyone else that it's good?

Have fun and enjoy it! Life's too short to worry about what others think!

 

[Ashbee]

Thank you everyone! well i am now 20 weeks pregnant, OH and I are still going strong (with a few bumps along the way) but we always seem to come back strong. Iv been quite emotional with hormones but he has been excellent. He has even bought us a house... we move in properly in June!

I cant wait to have a proper little family

 

[LaurenB47]

I started seeing my partner for about 2 weeks officially got together on 25th October fell pregnant 27th/28th October he moved in beginning of November found out I was pregnant end of January as just thought it was a few missed periods as they are always irregular tbh we have had our rows etc but we are doing brilliantly now he's the one he's amazing how with whatever feels tight our first baby is due 21st July xx

 

[leesey]

I started seeing my partner for about 2 weeks officially got together on 25th October fell pregnant 27th/28th October he moved in beginning of November found out I was pregnant end of January as just thought it was a few missed periods as they are always irregular tbh we have had our rows etc but we are doing brilliantly now he's the one he's amazing how with whatever feels tight our first baby is due 21st July xx

Wow that is impressive you got married since then?! That's lovely xx

 

[Ashbee]

I started seeing my partner for about 2 weeks officially got together on 25th October fell pregnant 27th/28th October he moved in beginning of November found out I was pregnant end of January as just thought it was a few missed periods as they are always irregular tbh we have had our rows etc but we are doing brilliantly now he's the one he's amazing how with whatever feels tight our first baby is due 21st July xx

that is impressive! we move in together in June - 8 months after meeting!

 

[MillersMissus]

Me and my boyfriend have only been together since July and decided in March to start trying. Both of us are divorced after our ex's cheated on us so have both had a pretty rough time before meeting each other!

This has made us appreciate each other so much!! I know this is the person i'm meant to be with and raise a family with. Looking back, me and my ex were never going to have children or last. My boyfriend has brought out the person I used to be and i'm happier than I ever have been, and everyone can see that. I've spoken to friends about us TTC, and everyone is overjoyed for us - sod anyone who says anything negative. Its your life x

 

[Hev_x]

Me and my partner met august, since then we have moved in together, gotten engaged - arranging a wedding next Aug in Hawaii and have a surprise baby on the way. We're all adults, if something feels right, grab it with both hand and go with it! Good luck with the future hunni xx